Met this guy recently and we've gone on a several dates, one of which ended up in intemacy. Today I decided to look him up on Facebook so I could show my friend a picture of him, because I was really starting dig this guy. To my surprise, almost all of his profile pictures were of him and a girl. From what I gather, I think she is his wife! And the most recent one was from about a month ago. I definitely want to confront him, but I just don't know how. I would never be in a relationship with someone who was married or had a girlfriend.
He's in the Army. He has an apartment and lives with a roommate. He's lived in town for 4 years. I'm assuming that she is also in the military.
And by reading the comments on his pictures, I'm pretty sure it's his wife.
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You dated. You talked. And apparently he didn't give any clue that there might be another woman. So ask. Be calm. The woman could be a sister, cousin, whatever. Yea, it must have been freaky, but then he had photos on fb, knew you could look them up.
So be calm and ask. Then, your call. If you think he is lieing to you, or he admits to another then go ahead and dump him.
Remember, we still have "innocent until" in this country.