My girlfriend and I have just hit the one month mark its not that I'm scared of committing but she talks about marriage already I'm sure I love her but she's one year younger that me and were both under the age of 18 is it weird for me to want her to stop because I love her and all but I'm not that sure about our relationship so do you think I should stop thinking its wrong to talk about it or is it OK to plan that much ahead or should I should I just not pay attention
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She's just enthusiastic and gaga for you, albeit a bit immature :P Try to tell her how it makes you feel without calling her crazy or making it seem like you think the relationship is going to be short-term. I may not understand her attitude but I can sympathize with how she might interpret your reaction.
I think it also depends HOW she's talking about it. If she's acting like she wants to get married soon, that's a whole different story than just fantasizing like, "when we're old and married..." That's still way too idealistic and inappropriate for one month, but that's the kind of thing I would just let slide instead of making her feel like crap.2