I have learned to love my husband's family Because I am one of the family already. Do I have to force my husband to do the same? A lot of people loves my family because we are lovable. My husband is just not a "people pleaser."
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It's not absolutely necessary, no; many people have a relationship even though they don't particularly care for their in-laws. But, IMO, unless your in-laws are some pretty rotten people, and treat you (or their own kid) badly, I think everyone should make an effort to get to know and be friends with their in-laws.
Were something ever to happen to you, he wouldn't want to end up in a big fight with your family over your care, or your kids' care, or anything like that, just because he'd never made any effort previously. Those situations get really ugly sometimes, and it's worth the effort to befriend them and to be able to work together.0