This is a strange one.
Last night I was talking to my wife when we got on the topic about her "baby daddy's" wife. My wife claims that she is has been harassed for 5 years but won't tell him or do anything about it. She thinks it will put her 5 yr. old daughter in some kind of hostile environment. We are newly weds as of May and know each other for over two years and been together for one year. Because we are married now, her problems are my problems.
So, last night I asked to see the messages that she has been receiving. She denied me the privilege to see them. She said it was for my own good. To protect me. That the content of the text where "nasty and gross" That she talks a lot of smack about her and myself. Sexual stuff about her and my wife's ex husband. I feel she is telling the truth but the fact that she is not willing to show me I feel there is more to the story.
So here is what I need to do to make me sane again.
1. I can tell my wife that she needs to block that ladies number. That all communications should go through the house phone or voice mail on my cell phone.
2. Still working on these next few options... please help.
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You should leave her alone about it. You could nicely suggest that she doesn't have to put up with that, and she can block that lady if she wants too, but just be supportive because she is just trying to deal with it the best way she can.
She is worried about her daughter, and she doesn't want to do more things to irritate these untrustworthy people who might take it out on her child.
Don't try to make it "your problem" because sometimes if you try to defend her against them, it could make things worse for her daughter and therefore, for your wife.
Clearly, they want to hurt your wife, so they probably would hurt her daughter, too.0