You are successful with your career, you have a successful girlfriend. Why can't you tie the knot?
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Well, firstly, some men, as demonstrated just on GAG alone, aren't capable dealing with the stresses and challenges of being married, they simply don't have it within them. Guys who can only see a marriage as a prison or tether are perfect examples of such men; they are right to choose not to get married - they couldn't handle it. For many other men, they are proceeding carefully, committing oneself to a single partner theoretically for life is a major step, it's one decision you wanna make sure you get right. Especially in the US, divorce is unfavorable towards men, so if a guy messes this one up, it will cost him dearly.
And there are other factors, timing usually. Good character men want to have, as we say here, all the ducks lined up, before taking on the responsibility of a marriage and a family.0