So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. And he has sent me texts saying he is stupid if he would not ask me to marry him in the future.. well we are getting a place of our own and we tell the people we are engaged just so it would make things easier. well we ran into one of his friends and she was like I heard you are getting engaged he was like no I will never do that again. then we were talking and he said yes I love you but I will never get married to you why have a paper that says we are together besides if we ever break up why spend thousands of dollars when you are not married you do not have to spend anything. then one of his friends got engaged he was like no that is a horrible idea never do that I will never and kept repeating himself. I have always wanted to get married. Of course when I am older. But still it kinda bothers me. What is your opinion on this.
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Getting married is a huge deal. In fact, if it means a lot to you then you need to sit down with him and ask where he sees you guys in the future and to see how you guys stand. Obviously if you don't want to get married now then mention that, but also you need to get this straightened out now. Especially if you guys are going around saying you're engaged when you're not really are at all.1