I am wondering if you would marry a man or woman who your family doesn't care for?
(You can any reason for them not liking that other person)
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It is difficult to have a harmonious life with kids if you cannot take your husband/wife to your parents. If it is just that they don't care for him/her, and find him/her "not ideal", they'll just have to live with it. But if my family detest the person and will use any opportunity to go into conflict - that will make tings much more difficult.
Say if my parents are really nice people, but they cannot accept me marrying someone with different skin color. They're racist to the core in other words. That would not make a very nice environment for kids to experience. On the other hand, that might be just the reason to cut all contact with them until they changed. It is still difficult.
Or more subtle. If my parents are solid working class people, and my fiance is a high society girl with old money. My parents may not resent the girl, but will often have big trouble relating to her social class of people. And they would never be able to keep up with her parents spending. That would cause trouble for them.0