Alright, so I have a boyfriend we've been dating for 5 years but, recently I met another guy. Me and this guy have been talking for about 5 months(met in July I think)... first it was all about the sex talk , etc for him but now he has grown to like me so much and I fell for him also. I learned that he was engaged in November and I tried to get rid of him but he was so attached and didn't want to leave me alone.. He also told me he loved me and his "soon to be wife" on the same level... He went back to New York today and his last word before he left were he loves me, don't let go of him and to don't worry because i"ll be in his arms soon! I am wondering now should I let him live his life on with his "soon to be wife" or not let go of him as he said not to do...! Am I in the wrong for getting attached to someone else whiles in a relationship?
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First of all I think it's an awful thing to do to your boyfriend at least have the courtesy to break up with him.
Secondly when a guy says he loves you just as much as his soon to be wife there should be a major alarm going off in your head, he sounds like a douche bag, and in my honest opinion I don't think he's going break up with his girlfriend not from what you've written.
And then there is the possibility of him doing just the same thing with you a couple of years later he finds some other attractive young thing he can wrap around his finger once a cheater always a cheater1