Guys, have you ever spanked your girlfriend/wife as a punishment?
I'm just curious.
If so, what did you or what did they do to earn it?
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There are two parts to this: 1) it needs to be negotiated beforehand. I make it a point to tell her that if we're going to date, on those rare occasions that she does something highly offensive, I reserve the right to discipline her. If she objects, no discipline though almost every woman I've ever been with has consented though it's very rare that it gets invoked. 2) It can't be part of sex and spanking is a huge turn on for me but if she has offended me enough that I feel the need for discipline, it will be radically different and not fun at all. The one time I remember, I found an email where she was going to meet another guy for a Vegas weekend. I made her choose understanding she would be disciplined severely if she chose me. She chose me.
One thing about domestic discipline: often she feels guilty and if she is disciplined, it all comes out and it's over. None of the nagging guilt that can harm relationships.0