I mean I want him to be close just not in the same room. I'd rather just do it with my mom and sister.
I just don't want him to see me like that. I didn't think he'd be that upset but he is. He didn't talk to me in two days. I'm only in the third month so we have some time to figure this out but I don't really think I'd change my mind
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It's a bit immature, but mostly it's just selfish. Obviously this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity matters a lot to him. He probably thought about watching his child enter the world, for most of his life. He may have fantasies about cutting the umbilical cord (many hospitals expect the husband to do that nowadays) and holding the baby for the first time.
It seems wrong, to me, that you should be so dismissive about that. Even worse that you want your sister and mother there. They won't be allowed, by the way. Typically, you're allowed one birthing partner only.0