This past weekend I had my bachelorette party in New Orleans on Bourbon Street and things got pretty wild. There were six girls With me we were all drinking and having a good time, Some of the girls dared me to flash my boobs for Mardi Gras beads and being a bit tipsy I took them up on the offer, I was just kind of like what the hell it's probably the last time we are all going to get to go out as a group and have fun together So I did it. Well after I did some of the other girls followed suit and it became kind of the thing to do that night It was daring and fun. So most of the night we flashed several times had lots of beads and also had a lot of fun. I am usually a very modest girl but I just wanted to have fun for the night and be kind of wild Before I go off and get married. Well one of the girls who I thought was a good friend of mine showed a picture of me and another girl flashing our boobs to her guy friend and in the picture showed a random guy grabbing my boob. It was very crowded there and yes some of the guys were reaching for us while we were flashing. Well as you probably know how the rest of the story goes word got around and my fiancé found out about the guy grabbing my boobs and now he is not talking to me. I am worried that he is going to call the wedding off and I really do not want that because I do love him I was just out having a good time and yes I probably did make some moral mistakes. We are supposed to be getting married next weekend and he won't talk to me do you think that I messed up bad enough that he would actually call the Wedding off? I was not intentionally letting guys grab us but sometimes they just did it really quick and somehow the picture got snapped of it. I did apologize to him and still I get nothing, what do you think is going to happen? Is what I did really that bad?
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I don't think it's a big deal, BUT he may be wondering if he knew you as well as he thought. You basically said it was out of character for you. So he may be asking himself what else he doesn't know about you. This was probably a shock for him. It may have taken him by surprise and he is reacting to it. Given more time he might think nothing of it, but for now it may be pure knee-jerk reaction.
If he's not talking to you, it sounds very much like he just doesn't know what to say, meaning he hasn't decided how he should react to this.7