Do you believe that marriage calls for conformity?
Meaning that you have to compromise/change a little to make it work.
"Well, maybe people are afraid of commitment because we are constantly changing, and people change at different paces, and sometimes not at all. If we change, maybe the person we were once with, no longer suits us anymore."
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Agree with Aercz. When we say we love someone, we are saying we can be counted upon to regularly make sacrifices in the best interest of our spouse, if not our marriage. Our self-interest comes after our spouse and family. We are no longer motivated so much by our 'feelings' as our commitment to our partner and marriage relationship.1