I got engaged in February after a year of dating my fiancé, we're planning for the wedding sometime next year. I'm 21 and he's 26. I do love him, he's very good to me and we rarely argue and I have no major reason to break off the engagement However, I'm getting this unexplainable uneasy feeling and all these doubts are running through my mind. I can't pinpoint them to a particular reason but all I know is I don't have a peaceful feeling and I don't know whether this is a good or bad thing. Do you think I should let him know how I'm feeling or just keep it to myself because it sounds irrational and not based on a reason?
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I think you should tell him. If he really loves you, he will put any of his hurt feelings aside(if any) and try to understand you. You are getting married after all, it's only natural to get cold feet. Your life is changing. And for all you know he could be feeling the same. Also, I think you should listen to your instincts. Maybe there's a good reason why you feel like this, although you can't pinpoint it. And, it would be horrible for you to have seconds thoughts about the marriage after you get married, so it's best to deal with it now.
If you choose to tell him, make it clear that you love him and all and you want to be with him, it's just the idea of getting married. Maybe it's too soon for you? Anyway whatever you choose to do, I hope it goes well x2