I like this guy but I think that he's really confused.Ive known this guy for over a year now and we've always been "friends" and basically told me he didn't want a girlfriend but he always brings up marriage to me and has even made jokes about us being married and he'll say things like he's done looking and he's already told his mom about me.When introduced to his friends they'll say things like"heard a lot about you."But he does hang out with a lot of women and he doesn't seem to want to commit.What does this mean?I really care about him and think that he needs help.Ive dealt with a lot of his crap in the past but deep down inside I think he means well but is just afraid of telling me how he feels.What do you GUYS think and what should I do?
Do guys ever get scared of commitment if they really like a girl?
What Guys Said 1
Everybody gets scared of commitment, even when they really like the other person. Commitment indicates a serious life change. It means you are willing to quit looking and considering other women (or men if that is your case) as potential dating options. It means you have to accept the other person with all their faults as well as the things that make them attractive to you and you have to decide if you can accept exactly what they have to offer. For me, making the mental change to quit looking at other girls as possible dates and flirting targets had to be done intentionally and took me a bit of time to make it a reality even though I really loved my wife (then my girlfriend/fiancee). Because I knew once the choice was made there were no "just kidding, I am not really ready" or "I want to reconsider" options without causing a lot of pain it was very scary.0
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