I have been so stupid. I was really drunk and got pregnant by the age of 19 which I don't regret. As soon as I told my then boyfriend he was delighted he was going to become a dad. I had my baby boy and my now husband was so nice and understanding and for years we were happy so decided to get engaged and move in together. As soon as we moved in together he has become a different person as he's trying to control me, starts arguments and has even grabbed me in a nasty way. I have said I will leave him but he tells me he will leave and never see our boy again, so I will let my boy down. On the day of our wedding I didn't want to go through it but my farter said it was wedding nervous and to do it for my son. My husband also destroyed the day of our wedding by wondering off and leaving me at the reception. On the night time he threw me on the bed and pulled my hair than grabbed hold of me. My brother stopped him hurting me. He has been nice ever since that night last February but I feel like I am stuck in a rut and he takes me for advantage. He has lost his phone with all the wedding pictures and my boy's first moments, which I'm starting to think shall I make my new memories alone with my boy. I do regret getting with my husband but please help what shall I do
Yes I do understand what being without a farther does as I don't know my dad, that's why I'm in two minds about leaving him
No he isn't cheating on me, one good thing
He pulled my hair to hurt me
He says he cares about me being happy but he works whenever he can, hardly ha time for us
He only makes out I mean something to him when he wants sex
left the reception as soon as we got married find a different venue to suit his cousins
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Wife or have a life ?
Have a life as in your case being a wife seems to be being with an abusive male.
"please help what shall I do"
Perhaps stay with family/friend while filing for divorce likely as a gal you'll get the child thanks to patriarchal gender roles of male is provider/female is caregiver playing out in court as male child pays support/female takes child(ren).0