I found out that my husband has been emailing letters to a girl in Russian. She sent him her photos and wrote love letters to him in which she said she feels in love with him, even though they have been talking for just two weeks. At first my husband was innocent because he did not care to delete her emails and the emails he sent to her, but now he seems to get into it. He types really gently when he answers her, hoping that I do not hear his typing. He deleted everything after he answered her back. I know about this because we use autofill for our emails. I did not do anything yet. Today she wrote him a real love letter, saying that she feels that they are getting closer, and she think the day they will meet in person will happen soon, that she never wants to lose him. I do not know what to do. I think he must have written something sensationally to her too and that must be why she is in hope like that. We have been married for four years and my marriage is good. Please tell me what I should do. Thank you so much.
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Between Russia and the US, there is enough distance: she will not send an ICBM (inter continental ballistic missile), nor will he.
Don't worry about what is essentially a game he's playing: if he chose to correspond with someone living that far, he must know that his chances of meeting her IRL are ZILCH.
Internet is full of Russian, African and Philippine women trying to get married with a Westerner, just to get out of their countries' miserable situation, and mailing at email addresses found at forums or through Google. I received different mails of that kind too, some with very revealing pictures. ;-)
If he choose to go along once or twice, just out of curiosity, to see how far she 'd go it's something without consequences.1