Me and this guy have been dating for about 3 months now. We would go out on dates and kiss/cuddle and all of that, but he recently started to get a little distant. When I confronted him about it all he said was "I am just worried about when I have to deploy (to Saudi Arabia for the Air Force) and I won't be able to see you anymore" he then said that he loved me and could see a future with me which I thought was sweet. My friend on the other hand had a feeling of distrust towards him so she did a lot of research and found out he is engaged! He had just gotten engaged to a girl back home a month before he started talking to me. Once I found out I basically told him "do not contact me ever again and tell your fiance I said hi" in which he freaked out and called me and my mom (yes he has met my family) over 50 times begging me not to tell her and saying he was sorry. The only thing I am starting to debate is whether I should tell her or not? And I really do not know how to get her contact information other than her Facebook which looks like she doesn't use much. I also feel guilty for being "the other woman" although I honestly did not know about her at all, other wise I would have smacked him myself for even trying to flirt in the first place.
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did you not see any signs in the beginning?
how/what did you friend see that you didn't? I would appreciated if you can share a bit...
i am curious because I feel like I am in a similar situation...i do hope not
in terms of the guy, I am so sorry that it happened to you and that you are going through this, just get him out of your life. so that you can heal and find someone better soon. life work things out in a strange way.0