Ok so I dated this guy for about 4 months. I really cared for him a lot. I don't think I was in love but I knew I had
love for him. I thought everything was going good. We went looking at cars together, he would say little things like
get inside baby this is gonna be your car one day... simple things like that. Every time we talked he was always cool
and told me how much he missed me etc. Then all of a sudden (no joke) he went out with his friends and started acting
differently. Well a week later, he broke it off. Initially he told me it was because the "sex was to good" and that
he saw himself looking at me as just sex and his feelings had faded away for me. Then he told me he felt guilty because the way I treated him with gifts,
massages, and just caring. He told me that he had to much respect for me and that I deserved way better than him.
Then I found out that the night he went out he had some girls pursue him and he wanted to cheat and that's what made
him break up because he knew if he would stay with me that he would one day cheat. We got together this past weekend
and he started saying all this stuff about us.. really confusing... but was adamant that it had to end but still wants
us to talk. What I dont
understand is, he was talking about his feelings for me and all this other crap and even started crying over the situation.
He's been in engaged twice and left the first time because she cheated on him and the 2nd because of the same reason"his feelings
faded away". What is his issue? Is he really just a dog? Is it some sort of personal situation maybe he's just scared? I'm just
so blindsided by this. I really care for him and want him back but I don't know if I should even try. I told myself that
I was going to give us about a month time apart before I contact him even if he contacts me. Should I do this? I'm so confused!
Most Helpful Girl
If a guy breaks up with you then don't chase him just let him go. I know the whole reasoning for it is stupid and confusing but the best thing you can do is try to get over him because there are guys out there who would actually appreciate you and never let you go. if a guy wants to leave then let him leave. your only hurting yourself by chasing after a guy who obviously doesn't really want you or he wouldn't have broken up with you.0