I know almost everyone does it or wants to do it someday.. but is it really worth it?
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I think so. I think the western culture that I live in tells me that a "real man" is someone who can sleep with a lot of women. Sleeping with a lot of women and not pleasing them as well as yourself only tells me you know how to do what any dog can do, breed. But I disagree with that line of thinking. I think a real man is a man who can find one woman who fits him well (not perfectly) and who can work out a relationship where they each provide for each others needs and wants. A real man is a man who can please one woman sexually, physically, spiritually, emotionally for 40 - 50 years - that is a real man. That type of relationship is summed up in one word - Marriage. Happily married couples (i.e. married couples that WORK at their marriage) live longer, healthier, wealthier lives.
By the way I have been married for over 10 years and EVERYTHING is better now than in the beginning of our marriage. It isn't easy and it isn't always fun - but as we keep going, things just get better and better.