When I say Strong Independent women , I'm referring to women usually are goal oriented , only looks out for herself , never seem weak, etc etc.
I didn't notice but a lot of men don't feel "needed " around women like this. One guy claimed that it's "against the way of society ".
Well , I don't agree with his opinion but I understand it can be tough dating someone who acts differently from the usual standards.
I'm indifferent on this , What do you think?
- Yeah.Vote A
- No. She should remain the sameVote B
- Not submissive but very feminineVote C
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Great question! Here's where I stand on this. I've always been independent. I have a masters degree and a good job and can completely support myself and have. My opinions are my own and I've never "needed" a man.
That being said, I believe the man should be respected for being a man and all the responsibilities that come with his role in a relationship. I adore my man and make it a point to never emasculate him. He's treated like a king! It's a beautiful balance. I don't lose who I am and am a strong women but we have mutual respect and power in the relationship. I never bash him behind his back or make him look stupid in front of his friends or others, and he's the same with me.
I think you can have both independence and be feminine. I think it's ideal!