He ALWAYS talks about the girl he likes and his kids but NEVER the wife. We haven't had sex but I don't care I will NEVER take the side chick route, but if he truly wants me HE has to come to that decision in his own time. I will not enable him to cheat. I haven't seen him in almost 6 months, now that I'm not around anymore he can figure things out on his own. Sometimes some women need to give a give a guy time to come to the realisation himself. Why would he choose you when he has the best of both worlds? don't f*** up by sleeping with him if he divorced his wife and chose to be with you let it be because HE wanted to. Til then I'm casually dating other guys.
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Wait - it sounds like you're actually interested in this guy. Are you? He's a piece of sh*t. Like you said, don't enable him.
And DON'T be a home wrecker! That would make you just as bad as him...maybe worse, considering we don't know how good / bad he has it with his wife.0