For those who have had a failed engagement(s) or marriage, how has that changed your opinions on marriage (or getting engaged/married another time?)
Obviously you believed in it before, do you still believe in it now?
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Married twice, first marriage ended after 4 years.
Second marriage last 12 years, wife pasted away.
Learned a lot of things from both marriages, as well as things about myself. I still believe in marriage, but know that no matter how much you love someone and they love you. A marriage takes hard work for it to endure.
The one thing I see a lot with couples thinking about and getting married, is that they have this rose colored view that once married everything will be perfect.
The biggest thing I have learned from experience, is to make sure you keep honest communication open. Once you stop talking to each other, the relationship is doomed. It is only a matter of time before little thing, become big issues that weaken and than break the relationship.1