What qualitys makes you want to keep a girl for a long time
In another words what makes you want a girl as a girlfriend even
A future wife?
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Listen ... You see all the answers from men here.. all different .. may be you can get some hints from them or some common theme .. but there is some stuff you should know..
1- You have to believe and repeat the following '' There is no reason why I am not good enough''
This phrase means... that the way you are right now.. is pretty much good enough for many men out there .. and may be surpassing their requirements. You as you are is enough. To make some man's dream girl .. not just for sex.. but for long term and hopefully lifelong relationship.
2- Men evaluate girls.. is she a fun girl.. is she a relationship girl .. based on the vibe they get from girls themselves. Lets say you meet a guy... you have a nice conversation now its gonna drift to a new topic.. which would you choose for a topic.. the crazy party you have every week ? or a deep discussion about how people relate to each other? The first topic gives me the vibe you are not looking for something serious right now.. while the second gives me a vibe that you are a serious girl . It will force me to corner you into a relationship type target. And it would be awesome if you are serious about a relationship but can show you can give some fun time for the appropriate audience ;)
3- Be assertive..but not bitchy. girls who don't have a backbone end up being led by a man's whim... hey.. we are human.. we have weaknesses.. if you don't show you have a say about the direction or the speed of the interaction.. the guy would take the relationship to a direction you don't want.
4- Drunk moments don't make connection. You will not spend your life drunk and happy with your husband.. if you can't connect when sober. He is not for you . Don't get drunk and end up in his bed . He will not take you that seriously.
5- Don't be afraid of abandonment. I get this vibe so much from girls. They are afraid of being alone. They get insecure about their decision. Guys pressure them. They compare themselves to their friends who got married etc etc .. remember .. '' There is no reason why you are not good enough'' don't settle.. you should feel happy , proud and at peace when you found your man . You deserve this. Now that doesn't mean he will fall from the sky.. it means you have to search for him by meeting and socializing. It is a numbers game .
6- Return to point number 2 . it is important... men will categorize you based on how you project yourself and what you express as your goals , needs, ambitions etc.. .. stare far away as you are sitting with him on a bench in the park.. look in the horizon and picture your realistic worthy man .. describe him.. the guy sitting next to you will automatically compare himself to your dream guy ... bingo.. you just made him indirectly know if he has a shot with you or not .. if he finds he ticks your boxes he will make the advance.. if he was loooking for a fling he iwll get away .. if he didn't take you seriously before he will now.. ;)1