Why do men always come back to thier wife?

Why would a man come back to his wife saying he made a mistake when he left her for another women 6 weeks ago ?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • They don't always.

    If he said he made a mistake, that's pretty personal to his feelings towards his wife, the other woman and cheating/marriage in general. Maybe he feels like a dirtbag. Maybe he cheated out of an unmet need that he realized cheating wasn't going to solve. Maybe he doesn't want to pay child support. Maybe he needs a place to live. Maybe he loves his wife and not the other woman. Maybe he routinely has short term sexual affairs that he cuts short when the other woman gets annoying to him. Could be anything.

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What Guys Said 4

  • people realize they can't do any better or realize they liked her more than the other girl , those kinds of reasons

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  • Because you let him.

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    • There are a number of reasons for which he would return, although I wrote the most important one above. So can you accept the fact that he's going to cheat? It takes years for people to truly change and that usually only happens after an epiphany brought on by some life altering even,t or catastrophic occurrence or loss, or a near death experience (though the latter usually only cause temporary changes in a person).

  • I guess because they live in the same house, and moving all the furniture would be harder then getting back with a passive woman that's OK with being married to a cheater.

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  • Because he realizes that the other woman is ultimately not as satisfying as his wife.

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What Girls Said 3

  • because the wife is a doormatt who will put up with it and let him continue his cheating lifestyle without being kicked out of the house, expensive divorce, child support payments, having to go through dating again to find a new wife who mostlikely won't put up with cheaters etc etc

    reasons he left the other woman are above plus she may have left him and he's saying he left her instead to make you feel better or he got bored of living with her full time in those 6 weeks after thinking he would prefer it

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  • Better question is why would she take him back?

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  • He goes back to his wife because she is the one he loves and he realized he was an idiot for losing his self control and betraying her. The other woman is a lust thing, not a love thing, typically.

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