My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Recently, he's gotten into the whole religion thing and I'm more of a spiritual person. But whatever, I don't mind him being religious until now when he tells me he wants to remain abstinent until marriage. He didn't even consult it with me first and just assumed I would be okay with it. Now, I'm not saying that sex is the most important thing in the relationship, because it's not. But isn't it a little too late for him to decided to be all godly? I just don't think it's fair. I don't like that religion tells you to suppress temptations and feelings that are completely natural and I think it is hypocritical of you to do so. I think that for people to rely so heavily on the bible and it's dystopian ideas is completely ridiculous.
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Even organized religion has to go to devious lengths to present pre-marital sex as sinful.They do it through inaccurate translation and misinterpretation of early writings,to end up with a Bible that suits their purpose. link
Organized religion has been spreading misery on this earth for thousands of years,and Satan would be proud of their achievements.
They've got him and he's brainwashed.He might have been weak in the head to start with.It's no different to any other cult,and he's likely to resist all logic and reasoning as long as he's under their influence.
It could take 5 years to get it out of his system,but it may never happen.
Leave,and don't try to be a part of it.It goes like this:You can suffer for years without sex,while he becomes more religious.Then they will convince him that you're not religious enough to be his partner.Ask me how I know.0