I texted him in during in a panic, I was doubting his feelings for me and feeling insecure, we've been "bf and gf" for 7 months now. When I texted him all my concerns he said he was at a wedding and was annoyed/pissed I was bothering him during it. I understand feeling annoyed, but him not telling me he was at wedding is exactly what I am feeling crappy about, he doesn't include me in his life, wouldn't you tell your girlfriend your going to a wedding? Sorry I'm just emotional, I don't know if he really likes me, he shows it at times and other times he is distance and acts like he doesn't care...
My boyfriend didn't tell me he was going to a wedding.
What Guys Said 3
Sounds like you have a sleeping partner and not a proper boyfriend. No way I go to a wedding and not bring my girl. Time to take control and back off.
Remember texting is not a good way to communicate. You can't hear someone's voice or inflections. If I say, "Oh, get out?" Am I mad like Get OUt! or sarcastic?
Yes to your update...a long hook up. It may be fun when you are frisky, but after 7 months it's time to measure if he is worth his salt. Try and put your emotions aside and look at the situation from the outside. Personally, I would dump him. No frisky stuff. I’m 42. At 42 you’ve seen pretty much everything and are sick of the B.S.
If you had a great job, a house, and were 40, would you be putting up with this?
He sounds too immature to be in a relationship…not bringing his love to a wedding?!
Sounds like you're way more invested in the relationship than he is. I would take some time to reevaluate the relationship.0
He doesn't sound like a boyfriend to me0
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