I have over the last year, watched as a once happily married woman. Has because of being accepted into a new group of women, slowly destroyed her marriage to fit in with the other women.
I watched as she changed herself in how she dressed, to how she treated people. I have watched and listened to how when she first became part of the group, how she would talk with love about her husband and how lucky she felt to have such a good man.
I watched how the other women took that, and started to pick at her trying to get her to find fault with this guy. At first she resisted, than after the cold shoulder she started to bring up things that to me seems like she was making up to fit in with the bitching the other women did about their man.
I have watched as she started to spend less time doing things with her husband, and started to spend more time with this group of women. I have watched as she went from a someone that had a happy glow to them, to her looking tired and worn out.
Her husband had enough and they separated, I know he tried to save the marriage because I heard her talking to the girls about how he wanted them to get couples counseling. The girls were all against it, telling her things like he is the one with the problems and he needs to change and accept her for who she is and all that crap women tell each other.
Today she got served with papers from her husband's lawyer, she is a wreak. I am looking at the other women, and it seems to me like they are all smirking about her situation.
Ladies is it so much more important to you to fit in with other women, that you change yourself and make yourself unhappy. Than to just be yourself and be happy, outside of some group.
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Women are terrible to each other. ESPECIALLY if they are single and their friends are married. They will pick and prod until their friend caves and dumps their man. At which point the girls always seem to find:
1) Being single isn't as great as they were led on to believe
2) Being a female over the age of 30 it isn't as easy to find new men as they remember. The guys their age are dating the younger, hotter women.
As us men have learned over the years, you can't trust 99% of women. But women, they sometimes forget just how evil members of their gender are.