Though I'm not in rush for kids as that's not my desire, I do want marriage at some point. At this point, I'm OK with just wanting a relationship and continue dating minus the ''living with you'' part.
But if there is something I won't do is move in without being engaged. I have never done that whole cohabitation thing and will never do it; I'm kind of traditional in that manner.
I'm tired of reading endless stories of women who confused moving in for step toward marriage and ended up waiting years for that proposal.
If the relationship has gotten towards engagement, that's what we both want and he already proposed along with all the invitation passed out and all the how, when, what, where questioned are answered, OK then I'll move in with him.
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"If there is no thing I will not accept is be used to meet all his need for endless years"
Things change when married though? You won't be "used" to meet his needs then?
"then when the relationship ends (as obviously all relationships do eventually end at some point), suddenly everything is over"
So being married will stop this? People don't break up when married?
I think people cohabitate for financial reasons where I live and so they can see each other more. If you have a lot of money I guess it doesn't matter as much, but that's not the case for most people.1
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