What justifies a punishment spanking between husband and wife?

I believe in marital spanking and paddling. Tell me, what sort of behaviour by a husband justifies his wife giving him a punishment spanking or paddling? And is there any sort of behaviour by a wife that justifies her husband smacking her with the paddle?
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  • Submission is a woman's natural state and woman are happiest when submitting to the will of their husband or father. The rise in feminism has left a lot of women unhappy in life and 1 out of 4 women are on anti depressants.
    Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me. She is happier now sumitting to my will and being the good helper the lord intended.

    What justifies a punishment spanking between husband and wife?What justifies a punishment spanking between husband and wife?
    • I love this! This is how I want to live my life.. Be in service for my husband and obey him

  • Acoording to my sister-in-law, anything that she doesn't like is a good enough reason! But especially flirting with women, or reading their e mail, or pinching them, or slapping THEIR behind!

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  • The only thing I can justify this with is when you are both in bed and want hot sex...Other than that, I don't believe in "marital spanking or paddling." But even though, leave the "paddles on the side", and just use your "patties"...:))

    • I have a couple of paddles, including a leather one that I can double up and fit into my purse. My hand spankings don't hurt!

    • lol! They always say:"You always hurt the one you love..":))

  • Unless it's some kind of S&M sex situation, I don't see how spanking each other would be necessary? Scolding each other like kids is kind of... weird.

    • Agreed. My wife and I are responsible adults that fulfill our responsibilities. Therefore, spanking is ONLY an erotic activity for us. We would not have married each other if the other was childish or irresponsible.

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  • I warned Todd three times I would paddle him severely if he didn’t stop ogling and flirting with women. His mother paddled him to mealy age 18. Three warnings, so the next time he flirted I stepped in as promised. I have a hard black acrylic paddle. I ordered Todd to remove all his clothes. I can’t swing the paddle super hard, but I hit the same spots on his bare buttocks over and over again until his yelping turned to weeping. I broke him mentally, and then I told him that the paddling was one he would never forget. I give him 35 more hard whacks after his tears were flowing. I made him remain nude the rest of the evening as a reminder who is in charge. He could barely sit for a day. He has not flirted with women since that punishment paddling.

  • My Girlfriend spanks me when I am stupid, disrespectful or do silly guy things.

    I've been spanked in front of our friends but usually at home, and to tears - lol! It is a bare bottom spanking across her knees, sometimes with a paddle or a hairbrush. I am a cross dresser and fully femme, so I like to dress in skirts at home. She isn't really into Cross dressing as such so I mostly dress androgynous, but do wear makeup etc. My girlfriend believes that if I am going to dress like a girl she'll treat me like one, which is fine most of the time. My girlfriend has started to pat my bottom, all the time when we are out., and if I am being a pain she asks if I want a spanking - that sorts me out quick! Neither of us were spanked as kids so I don't know where it comes from, but if we have sex after it is totally super intense!!

    I am ok with being spanked and see it both as fun sex type stuff as well as part of our relatiohsip and who is boss.

  • Without their permission, nothing justifies hitting your spouse. Ever. Not even once.

    WITH her permission, I'll just say you need to make sure you remember your safe word. ;-)

    • Spanking is not hitting. It is a sexual act.

    • Um... sexy hitting is still hitting. I don't mind a little bit of fun with a riding crop but it's totally dependent on trusting who you're with. If anyone spanked me for punishment it'd be over. I expect any girl I would respect would say the same thing.

    • ... and that's all that it should be!

  • If I break one of her house rules then she disciplines me. Can be anything from talking back to her (disrespecting her), not doing the chords I was supposed to, and it used to be for masturbating or cumming without permission but now I'm in chastity and she has to unlock me to do either now. She's definitely the head of the house and our marriage.

  • If she's a naughty little girl she definitely deserves a spanking ;)

  • Erotic play accepted buy both is the only excuse.

  • I don't think a husband or wife should ever strike each other.

  • Nothing. That is abuse.

  • It's kinky and can be hot lol just use excused to do it to each other lol. Like hey you were two minutes late for dinner I am gonna have to spank you lol, or to role play you didn't organize the files right I am gonna have to punish you lol.

  • Do you get spanked regularly?

  • When the wife disagrees with something the hubby did

    • I often spank my girlfriend when she does something wrong but never in anger.

  • My wife spanks me during sex sometimes. I’ve tried to get her to give me discipline spanks for when I do things she doesn’t like but she won’t go for it. I really wish she wold, I’m starting to get hard just typing this.

  • Its bdsm its ok.

  • I know I get disrespectful to my girlfriends often, s, I suppose I'm the kind of guy who would benefit from regular spankings from my girlfriend.

  • I live in a domestic discipline marriage 24/7. It is impossible to answer this question as each relationship has different rules. I get spanked for disrespect, defiance, danger and disobedience. It is 100% consensual.

  • I get his belt or paddle

  • Trampling under high heels pumps

  • BDSM.

  • When he wants it ;)

    • That's right.

  • Troll in the dungeon?

    Anyway, it's a sex game to us, and of course I spank as the lord of the house, never the other way round.

    • However, it's only the spankee that gets the full cocktail of yummy sex hormones...

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