I'm not trying to be mean. I'm asking if that's how society perceives and generalizes men like this. Mail order brides are mostly women from other countries of lower socioeconomic classes, who try to acquire citizenship of wealthier nations; they do it by putting themselves up for sale and marrying one of that country's citizens .
I've known only one guy who had a mail order wife. They had a couple kids and then divorced. This guy was in fact the biggest loser I have ever met. Not because he had a mail order wife, but because he failed at everything, stole other people's creative ideas, had terrible hygene, and room temperature IQ, and made excuses.
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I wouldn't call them "losers" per say, but I do think that they may have issues that prevent them from acquiring a relationship the old fashioned way. They may be socially awkward or maybe just an overall unlikeable person. The reason someone would get a mail-order wife would be because they can't get a woman any other way so they decide to pay one so she will technically "belong" to him. I can't really see the average guy getting a mail-order bride. It's definitely something that only certain types of people do. I would not consider these men to be "normal" exactly, socially speaking.1