I'm not a whore and I don't intend to be treated like one. he knows that I'm not going to have sex until I'm married, but he still seems to only think about getting me in bed... how can I get him to like me as a person, not just an object?
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Sweetheart! You will gain his respect by not giving in to his pressure! If a man is sportfishing( which he is...meaning landing that great catch (in bed)) then it's what he is doing! Men sportfish( especially younger men/boys..hint that's were the term young stud originated from) until they decide that they only want one women in their life...period! Often it's the man's lifestyle choice...but on occasion a man will meet a women and think to himself she's it the one I want for the rest of my life! The best thing in this situation is to tell him your requirements...that is to not have sex until marriage...and be firm! It will drive him crazy and he will leave or try harder! If he trys harder remove yourself from the situation! At that point he will either begin treating you with the respect you deserve or he will move on to the next pond! If he moves on then he did you a huge favor! Don't give in because if you do you will become the one he landed and the game will be over...and then he will leave and move on to the next pond anyways! Stay strong sweetie!1