Last night the guy I'm f*cking said we had to talk about what it was that was going on between us, and we established that he has no time for a relationship, and he didn't want to hurt anybody, so if I felt it was unhealthy for me, he'll be okay with me walking away. I said I'm not even looking for a relationship and am very much enjoying being free, and that we shouldn't overanalyse anything, we should just enjoy ourselves.
And then when he turned off the light, he said the most awful thing that sent a chill of fear through my blood, "Haha, what if we end up getting married?"
I just went ". WHAT?" on my side of the bed in the dark. And he just wiggled himself into a sleeping position. W. T. F? WHAT?
Why was that thought EVEN IN THERE?
He's 36 and i'm 27. There's not ONE OUNCE of him that could be serious right? We've fucking only known each other a MONTH.
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Maybe he thinks because you have the same disinterest for a relationship that you find the satire funny. He probably just loves that you genuinely enjoy being single. A guy said that to me once in the same situation.
The other possibility is that he could just secretly love denying women his commitment and thus is bent that he doesn't have this affect on you and wants you to fall for him. I know another guy like that. Ugh!0