I'm 42 and have been married for 20 years to the best guy in the world we have 2 beautiful kids. He has a single friend who has girls send him naked pictures of themselves privately and he is sharing their pics with my husband. I confronted my husband and he said, he was curious. I let it go. But, I just caught him again getting forward emails from his friend with naked pics. of he's girlfriends. What is going on? I don't know what to do?
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No, sorry, that's BS. Your husband has no right to be looking at other girls, naked. Your body should be enough for him. I'm sorry, but if I was married, there should be NO room on my computer for pictures, or videos, of other women, ESPECIALLY women his friend KNOWS.
When these other guys are saying, "Men are very visual creatures", they are right- but it is for that EXACT reason why your husband should NOT be looking at those pictures. He is becoming aroused by the sight of another woman's body, or finding some parts of it attractive. ("Curious", in other words, as he said himself.)
He knows he is doing wrong, in a way, so if you hound him on it, he may retreat further into this perversion. That's bad for you... But it is obvious, if he had a (Complete, total) heart for your feelings, he wouldn't be doing this to you, especially behind your back.
Perhaps the answer is to confront his friend. Tell him you do NOT want him sharing pictures of these girls with your man. He might be his friend, but YOU are his MATE. To me, my mate is more important than my friends- because SHE is the one I spend time with, who loves me in bed and out of it, and it's her heart that I need to know, better than my own.
I hope your husband snaps out of his little excitement over seeing these girls that his friend has so disgustingly taken pictures of, to oggle over, with his friends. I would gather that those women would NOT be okay with that.0