I am a horrible person and I am finally starting to realize this. I am engaged and I need to get out not because of me but because she doesn't deserve to be treated the way I treat her. I am obsessed with cheating. I have slept with 7 different girls while I have been with her. 2 being my ex girlfriends, 2 being two of her friends, one her cousin, a coworker of mine that is more then a sexual affair but emotional too and she is pregnant, but she lives on the other side of the state. and the last one was just recently some girl I hooked up with on craigslist. I am a selfish disgusting human being and I get off on the craziest stuff. I like to have sex with these girls in mine and my fiances bed, or in our house. I need to leave her but its going to break her heart and I don't want to do that. I love her more then anything and I wish I could just stop all of this and move on with her but the damage has been done. how do I go about this?
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You broke her heart the moment you even touched the first girl you cheated with.
She may not know it at first, but right now, breaking up with her will have been the BEST thing you have ever done for her.
Let her move on to someone who loves, respects, and deserves her if you can't do it right. Don't trap her in a meaningless marriage with a cheater. You don't love her. Don't kid yourself and don't you dare give the word "love" such a disdainful mockery in saying that you do. If you loved her you wouldn't have done this. But if you at least care abut her, you will come clean.
Now, what I'm wondering if you're just a cheater or someone with a serious problem with sex addiction. If you find that you do have a problem, you need to go and get yourself some help. That is before you track down this "emotional affair girl" and take care of that child you put inside her (that is, if it is yours. In this kind of situation...who knows?). This is a MUST. Unlike everyone else in this sordid little coup you've created, this baby is completely innocent and he/she should not be made to suffer. If you can't respect yourself enough to be a good man and be good to these women and child who's lives you have greatly and negatively effected, you need to remove yourself from them pronto!
Fix this situation and then go fix yourself.