What does it mean when a guy says you're his girl to people when your next to him?

Question

I was standing next to him this girl all of a sudden asks if he is going out with this other girl. Suddenly he says no she's my girl when he is looking at me then smiles. I said yeah and smiled back.

So What does it mean when a guy calls you his girl?

matthewm · Accepted Answer

Sorry it took me so long to get to answering this question. I've been a little busy lately, but let's get to the point.

Okay. So the guy was looking at you while he was making a comment about dating. Hmmm. It seems to me like a classic example of subtle communication. Have you ever noticed people do that to put in a subtle jab? For example, making comments about you while your near. I explained it that way because I figured most people understand it that way better. Anyway, so that was basically flirting.

About him talking and such with other girls (I understand that this has already been discussed, but just in case, I'll add my two cents)... You see, he has the guts to talk to a girl and he seems like a pretty good guy. So, I would expect girls to digg that. I wouldn't trip about it.

So, you're trying to find a way to reel him in, right? Well, with all of those other girls competing for his attention (regardless of the fact that he isn't interested in him), you're going to have to give him something that makes you stand out above all of the others. My question would be something along the lines of: What do you have to offer that those other girls don't have? Don't get down if you can't figure anything out right off the bat... because it can take time sometimes.

So, bottom line: my advice would be to talk with him and spend time with him. On those boring weekends when you can't find anything to do, invite him over to be bored with you. You'd be surprised how often being bored with your crush turns out to be soooo not boring.

Anyway, sorry again for not getting to answering your question sooner :-(

NewYorkCity · Accepted Answer

That means he is into you. Calling you his girl in front of everybody kind of give out a sign for everybody around. Guys don't say to other girls that she is my girl especially in high school while knowing each other for 3 years and dating for a year. This is a whole beauty of H.S. and fresh guys who didn't get scrutinized  from a fake guys system ( to F... as many girls as possible before college ). If you caught one and held to one for a long period of time in there, that means you will have a long relationship. Same concept applies to girls. Don't get greedy and stick to one man that you like. Guys are scared of girls until age of 19 MAX so if you think that he is ignoring you but at the same time holds our hand smiles TXT's you but doing it all silent and secretly that means he likes you a lot but don't have enough 00 to admit it. Give them a little push and you will get a reword that is beyond your imagination. Good Luck.

VIVA-Vigilante · Accepted Answer

Well, from the situation you described it sounds like he likes you but there isn't really a lot of information to go on.

Do you talk to each other a lot? How long have you known him? Are you good friends? Has he given you any other signs that he likes you?

Because the meaning behind a guy saying something "she's my girl" can vary depending on the situation and the girl they are talking about.

"She's my girl" can be applied in a fair amount of ways. I've heard it used to describe a close female friend, someone who is like a sister, some one the guy may be interested in and so on.

I would suggest talking to him about it, I know a lot of other people have probably told you the same thing but it's probably the best option.

Also in your newest update says that now he "is not speaking, but flirting"? What do you mean by that? Is he not talking to you at all and just staring at you?

And you asked what you "should do about that", well if the staring is making you uncomfortable talk to him about it. If not and you don't mind just give him eye contact, acknowledge him. Maybe give him a playful smile or a sign that your interested ~

Sorry for asking a ton of questions! Just trying to learn a little bit more about the situation so I can help you out better.

AskUsLadies · Accepted Answer

I have read through all of the updates and I believe that you should trust your gut feeling. Usually our gut feeling never steers us wrong, be it good news or bad. If he's been flirting with you for all of these months but hasn't sealed the deal (a date) either he is extremely shy or he is unavailable. Have you confirmed whether or not he's dating anyone else? If he's not, let your actions confirm your interest in him so that he knows that he has a good chance with you. Sometimes a fear of rejection keeps a man from asking a woman out. Play your position and he'll come around if he's interested. If he doesn't come around, that's okay too because you don't want to inherit a problem (rushing a guy into something for which he's not ready). Love will happen when it's supposed to...hang in there!

-AskUsLadies

sweetandsour · Accepted Answer

I pretty sure by his actions and his words that he likes you.

I don't see any reason to not go for it, especially because you like him.

But, then again, I probably don't because I am overwhelmed with reasoning for you to go for it:

1- You like him

2- You told shaowscard that he isn't a player, so therefore you won't get hurt by him

3- all the evidence shows that he likes you

I could continue but, I believe that the three reasons that I just listed are reasoning enough!Don't watch this moment past, I did when I was in this scenario and I have regretted it ever since.

Good luck and keep on updating! :)

DustBallKid · Answer

As a lot of the girls and guys said on here it seems that he likes you and is using that opportunity to tell you. Also about the girl that asked in the first place can be interested in him but he might not be interested in her. So he could also have used the opportunity to get the girl to leave him alone if he doesn't like her but he can be a victim of his own success and cause the girl to like him more. Girls hate to not be able to catch a guy that she is interested in. So basically you could have been his defense against the other chica, girls do the same thing by bringing a guy friend with them and saying that they are going out. It's a play that works out really well to get ride of an unwanted girl or guy. I call it the Pawn defense. That is my answer for the direct question at hand.

As for the updates from what I see it looks like he is a good guy or seems to be. If you guys are flirting and all, and you like him he is obviously showing interest in return to you as well. I direct that advice to the 3month updates as for the newer more recent post, well he might not be a player but if this was 3 months ago you have let a long time go by has he asked you out or have you asked him out. If not and the interest is still there. Get it while the getting is good, hopefully he hasn't lost interest and everything is still good.

And lastly although he hangs with a lot of girls he might just like to be around a lot of chica's to put up that look like he is a play but if you say he isn't that's your own judgement of his character.

superdudeman · Answer

It all depends on the woman's value in relation to what the guy thinks of himself.

A simple answer is, he's showing off his value to other women and to her.

It would be the same as driving around in a sports car, rolling down your windows and blaring the music.

The only difference is that with a car, you don't have to worry about it getting mad at you.

If the woman is physically attractive and fun, then it means that the guy likes her and is actually attempting to flirt more with her than the other women in the interaction.

If the woman is not attractive and/or not fun, then it means that the guy is simply showing off his value to other women in order to attempt to get the other women to notice/ like him.

You don't have to be a player in order to react to a social situation correctly. Sometimes its just blind luck.

If he calls you his girl when you two are alone, then it simply means that he likes you because there is no one to show off to.

People treat others differently when there is an audience, what really matters is when you two are alone.

tongakid · Answer

I'm gonna say it's 50/50. It could be easily plausible that he was just giving the other girl the brush off to deny answering the question seriously. I mean, I would do SOMETHING like that, but it would be clear to everyone that it's a joke...

Check this guy's reputation. If he's a flirt with everyone, then you may have to fish out something from him. Like, if this guy has got his arm around another girl, go up to him with a little coy smile and call him out. You'll know if he was just messing with you then based on his reaction now.

1) If he gets embarassed, he probably likes you.

2) If he doesn't, he was probably just playing.

This also shows that "you can play the game too" which may be kinda hot to him... it would be kinda hot to me. :)

Also, it doesn't show any 'weakness' on your part... like you can hang with him without being timid.

Best of luck ma'am.

Shinreibi · Answer

Well, what do ysou think of that guy, is he your type. I didn't get a lot of info on this but when a guy calls you his girl he can mean two things:

a) he likes you, he is not a real player how much I figured out, but if he is a little bit more popular that would be a typical behavior, guys have a need to prove themselves to other guys, even though it reall dosnt have anything to do with you - which means he isn't with you just to prove himself to them

b) he thinks of you as an ok person, so he is making you his friend in this way. You don't sometimes have to literally take his words as they are. Some guys don't know how to bond with some girl in just a friendly way, so they use their knowledge from getting to know the guys.

first of all, try to discover what he reall meant by it, was it a or b

then you have to ask yourself what you want and either go with him, or keep searching

^^ hope you like the answer!

shadowscard · Answer

I agree with tongakid but I'd say it's 50/50 that he likes you. It could be that he's just flirting/playing with you but he could be trying to use this as a hint to show he likes you. Guys are pretty simple to figure out when you get down to it. They don't flirt with girls they aren't attracted to at all, so I'd say you have a better chance that he likes you. He could be one of those guys who flirts with all girls, but the rule still applies that if he didn't find you attractive he wouldn't flirt with you.

You should flirt back with him, if he stares at you stare back or wink at him and stick your tongue out at him. If you keep flirting back at him hopefully he'll ask you out.

Gabriel37 · Answer

If the two of you had been talking about becoming involved or it was inferred that you had some sort of attraction toward each other, it would be my guess that he was opening things up for you to make some sort of advance. Seeing him with other girls probably means that he likes attentio 9as most guys do)and making statements to you and admiring you with looks would definitely mean that there was something there for him but on the other side of the coin, if no commitment has been made then someone needs to get to the bottom of this. Hmmmmmm...

ankurunderdog · Answer

MY GIRL is a nice sign that he likes u,he feels or fantacises you as his Girlfriend.

if you fantacy him like him or have a crush wid him den start dating him,go watch movies enjoy urselves,if you start having sumthing more dan crush den take it to 2 d next level dear,or else just move on,give sum time to it dear.

and don't complicate it just be easy to yourself to find out what he meant.

Spend time with him,talk to him on d phone text him regularly,if he meant what he said

then he'll too care for u.

dont think too much on these things these get more and more complicated as you think.

just do what you feel,what ur heart says...

best of luck dear :)

ivan5252 · Answer

if I understand this correctly, you were just "hangin out".. and he might've caught you off guard when he said you were his girl.. at which point you started to wonder what that all meant..

if so, it sounds like it was perfect timing for him to say he likes u.. for that moment, he might have just said that to get the other girl (s) off his back, while at the same time he got it out there that he likes u.. to answer ur question I'd say it means he likes you and now he's going with the flow trying to see if it goes anywhere..

Confused_Me · Answer

He likes u. .all the signs from him are telling that he is into you but somehow he can't make a move. .maybe because he's shy or still waiting for ur hints. .try to show him that ur interested so that he knows. . as ur confused by his indirect signals, maybe he is too but you got several answers over here and now ur kind of sure that he likes you but maybe he can't ask about ur signals from others. .so try to show him that you like him, if he's not shy he'll def make a move but if he is then you have to do something!

Best Of Luck! :)

sa230e · Answer

It sounds like you're in!

Things like staring at you, big smile on his face, having a hard time finding words are all good signs that a guy is enchanted with you. The whole "she's my girl" thing sounds like a compliment to me. I would think that if he was a player he wouldn't have explicitly picked you out like that in front of other women like he did. If I were a woman I would read it as "you're the one I want to be with and not these other girls here.".

You're past the stage of flirting and wondering if he likes you while playing hard to get. As you spend time together things should progress a bit more naturally. You're at a point where it's safe to open up and show some affection. Hug him, put your arms around him, put your head on his shoulders. Touch says more than words can. It doesn't have to be sexual at all. You don't have to be really forward about it but you're in so don't be afraid to take it to the next level.

Congrats!

drummerdude25 · Answer

He sounds like a player kinda... If that's the case, it's best you stay away.

It's obvious that he wants to make you his girl, but you could end up one of many girls from the sound of it. Not for sure, but from my understanding of the situation/question, it's a strong possibility he could just want to play you. His smooth/over-confident attitude makes it even more apparent to me...

And if he's around lots of other girls, that's a bad sign. You don't want a guy with a lot of female "friends" because if he has that attitude, he's probably having relations with all of them too simply because he can.

IMHO you should stay away from him. Just because he's "hot" and seemingly unattainable doesn't make him a quality guy worth pursuing...

MrWizard · Answer

If you two didn't have anything going on before this, it certainly sounds like he was trying to drop a hint that he likes you. Perhaps he is shy about staying anything directly.

Personally, I think it is best to be open and just talk to him about it. Too many missed opportunities by people not being forthcoming about how they feel and what they want. You could say something to the effect of "I liked it when you called my your girl the other day. Want to go get some coffee?"

Perhaps it is my old age around here, but I don't know why we play so many games with dating ;)

Anonymous · Answer

When a guy calls you his girl, basically he is being blunt and saying he likes you. He really does seem to like you, and well my best suggestion is to move forward and maybe ask him out, say to go hang around in the mall with him. Like get to know him outside school that is truly who he is, so then it will either bring the two of you closer or you may see a side that you don't like.

Anyways, the best thing to do is to ask him out or to confront him about him liking you, so like try to get a convo with him and start to bring it closer to who he likes and stuff like that, its not harmful to ask a person who they like. If you work it towards that, then it will be fine.

ladylicker501 · Answer

Well, honestly...from what I see, he is interested in you, but to what degree.  Is he a playboy? Does he ask you out any? Does he care how you feel? hows ur day going?  A sincere guy that is interested in one person will only focus on her.  If he doesnt, means he is just playing the field...

kpro11 · Answer

i wouldn't over analyze every single situation, and every little thing that he says or doesn't say. what it seems to me is that he does like you,  but maybe he doesn't quite know how to act. guys are allowed to hang out with other girls, it doesn't mean he hates you if he talks to a girl who isn't you. if he said "she's my girl" to you in front of other people, he obviously has some kind of feelings for you., but  no one on this website is going to be able to tell you exactly what was going through his mind. does he know you like him? do you act weird around him because you like him? those are all things you need to keep in mind. stop over analyzing everything and just go with the flow. if its meant to happen, it will.  but don't get angry and upset when he talks to other girls and stuff. you know? just be yourself, and.. if he likes you, he likes you. if not. life goes on:)

Standingpretty · Answer

Well, something like that would mean that he likes you but he could also be saying that to get rid of the other girl. But, he did smile at you so I think it's the first one. But, I would say talk to him about it and ask him what he meant by you're his girl.

JC1992 · Answer

I would say that this guy does like you, the fact that he denied going out with another girl very quickly and then looked at you saying you were his girl would suggest he very much cares what you think, also 'his girl' may mean that he has his eyes/focus on you.

I would also say look out for other signs, does he try to start conversations with you a lot, does he try to touch you on the hand, arm, shoulder, hair, etc. These would be quite clear signs that he does like you.

I think you should ask if he'd like to do something sometime, like go to the movies or even do homework together. I know it seems a strange asking to do homework together, but if he really likes you then he will be thrilled at the idea.

SavingHer · Answer

You have so many of the same answers on here.  All I can tell you is that you need to be up front with him about what it meant when he said to the other girl.  That is the only way you're going to find out.  If I type what I think then your answers will be like a broken record- same thing oer and over again.  Just ask him.

DIPEPDINGOLD · Answer

Ok, just because he flirts and stares at you and told someone else you were his girl dosen't mean that it is a "conformation" that he's labeling as HIS girl. Guys do this--FLIRT--...but they are flirting or trying to send indirect signals that they could be interested in you. I would be upfront with him and ask him "does he like you". Stop beating around the bush and find out what's up or you will never know...

drummerdude27 · Answer

well when I call a girl "my girl" I am interested to say the least. I want her and everybody to know she is mine. when I am flirting and she gets sad. I say you are my girl and I love you. when she is my girl. I want her to know it along with everybody. hope this helped.

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