Why Do White Chicks Love Black Guys?

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Is it a fashion trend or something deeper? I would love to know what white girls find so fascinating in my ethnic group...Ive seen perfectly decent, smart white girls go for the most wasted black guys, simply because their black...is it a pheromone we're excreting out of our skin? lol or is it a personality/ culture issue?

NEGRONOMICON · Accepted Answer

It is the desire of rebellion rooted in people of all deeply. In earlier times, pretty white hot prototype "Mandingo" black, would sit on the porch of her staring across the field burning. Freud described based on the foundation of the idea of ??cultural and Mandingo as awareness of subtle implicit.

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Bvroon · Accepted Answer

Honestly there was once a time I really used to worry about this and was somewhat offended by inter-racial dating. I must note I said at one time. I have spend a good deal of time thinking about the whys and what for's of why inter-racial dating is such an issue. The conclusion I have come to is that in the end it really doesn't matter to me any more. People are difficult to understand, and trying to understand what motivates them to make the choices they do is even more difficult, as often times they don't even understand themselves. I don't have any major race issues and can get along with most anybody. Keeping this in mind race is just a color. I'm not discounting that there are cultural differences between races, just that if you really take the time to get to know somebody that it seems to me that their race really seems to fall into the background, at least for me anyway. I work with a large population of African Americans and speaking for myself the longer I have known them the more it seems to me that we are all just people and that most of us want the same sorts of things. Respect, dignity, safety, to be loved, to be treated well. As for some of the other supposed reasons people feel they date other races, I can't really say. In my opinion if you feel the need to have some sort of justification for dating anybody regardless of race, then perhaps you should really re evaluate the reason you are seeing them. My comments are simply to express some of my views and not to offend anybody, and it is my hope that I haven't. Ultimately we are all just people, we have strengths and weaknesses and I feel the sooner we can accept that the sooner we will be able to live together peacefully.

nyalalam · Accepted Answer

This is the truth:

Some white girls just find black men attractive, for some reason. it could be that they are genuinely attracted to how black men look; the very tightly curled and scratchy hair, the wide noses and thick lips, the black eyes, etc.

Some white girls are purely very turned on by the taboo, the naughty-ness, the exotic-ness, and because of this they orgasm during sex and then believe the nonsense that black men are better in bed.

Many, if not most white girls, especially in the USA, have poor self esteem and desperately need to constantly be in a relationship in order to feel worthy, hence they will go with whoever comes on to them first and/or the strongest. Often times this will be black men.

This connects with the former point: USA has degenerated incredibly in the moral and sexual arenas. The population is hyper-sexual and over-stimulated. It's common for girls to have slept with over 30 guys before they turn 21. Obviously the more promiscuous white girls are, the greater the chances are that they will have slept with someone of a different race. This also makes them terrible long term partners.

Absence of conservative values: White households are increasingly liberal and effeminate. White fathers are effeminate and don't instill proper values in their daughters. They never encourage or condition them to stay loyal to their race. hence white girls grow up being taught that it's OK to date whomever they want, regardless of race, and so they go out of their way sometimes to date inter-racially for the experience. Girls of other races, on the other hand, are raised much better; more conservatively, strictly and in masculine households - where their fathers and mothers forbid them early on to mingle outside their race.

The far-left brainwashing and the racism chokehold: white people, the world over, are held hostage by their fear of the racism concept. A minority of far leftist, with their control over the media, has successfully paralyzed whites

i_love_my_guardsman · Accepted Answer

i disagree with most anwsers...yes some do for those reasons but not most and it gives interracial couples a bad name..i personally only date black men (I am white)but for several reason which none have been mentioned. 1.) I was in a very very bad relationship with a white man who abused me in every possible way and caused me to miscarry our child and now have a huge chance of never being able to have children according to doctors (my main goal in life was to be a great mother to 3-5 children)and now every time I think or try to date a white man I see him am repulsed. 2.) I have never been attracted to hispanic or asian guys but I love the contrast of dark skin (not just tanned) agaisnt mine. 3.) black men usually not always but usually have better bodies (more muscles) 4.) easily attracted to me ( I was unfortunatly "blessed" in the booty department 5.) the love of my life (who I've been going on 3 years off and on with now) is black...even though he thinks he's white lol.. 6.) I've been treated better by every black guy I've dated compaired to white guys (that may b luck tho) 7.) mixed babies are the prettiest! hehe and several others...none of my reasons are because its a trend...taboo...to p*ss off my parents...or any other stupid reason oh! and its def not because they "have bigger packages" because that is not always true at all...and girls if you dating a blk man just in hopes of him having a big penis...dont use him! just go buy a dildo and stop being stupid and using ppl!

sweet18 · Accepted Answer

Well sometimes it seems like black guys are the only guys who ever show interest in me.

Lets face it, black guys are better than white guys at showing interest in a girl, so more times than not they are probably going to get the girl.

Another reason is, like others said, black guys tend to be cool and funny. They also tend to be more muscular and athletic -->sexy.

setcheck67 · Answer

For the most part women like black men, because they are men... lol in order for anything to make children with anything else there needs to be a 97% or more genetic similarity. Black people as a whole tend to be more masculine too, which obviously is attractive to women(not so much to men). White people are at a middle and Asians are generally feminine. As for penis size and better sexual instincts that is like trying to say a black man has a different brain then a white man. This however is impossible, because the instinctual part of the brain which controls sexuality is NOT different between human people. In fact the instinct part of the brain is the same in ALL mammalian animals. The penis size thing is most likely a result of diet and lifestyle rather then genetics. I am considered white though I am half Spanish and not to brag, but I'm far from small lol. I put the cause on my heavy protein diet and loose clothes(typical of most black men). I'm far from gangster though lol. I just like cheese and meat and why should I waste money buying pants my size or smaller when I'll have to buy some more? Scientists have already mapped the human genome and have yet to find any genes relative to how big a mans penis is.

SayYes2Courtney · Answer

I'm a white girl and I love black guys. I love any guy, white or black or Hispanic, who exudes confidence and takes care of his body is handsome and thinks I'm pretty. The rest is all learned through experience. You never know for sure if a thug is really a sweetheart or if a preppy white jock is a closet pervert until you jump in and take him home. I'm always open to learning more about any man that pushes my buttons and makes me tingle because white or black, he could turn out to be my perfect man. So far, none have proven themselves worthy of me which would include men from a variety of backgrounds and races. Black athletes, Hispanic entrepreneurs, white business men, and one Greek restauranteur. All in all dozens of men have caught my eye and been given opportunities to show me how awesome they are yet I'm still looking. That said, I've dated a great many black men who were drop dead marriage material but for minor issues such as a family who couldn't accept a white girl daughter or him cheating or other stupid things. Black men in general, not all, are very hot, attentive, passionate lovers with style and swag and everything a girl could want in a man. White guys, I think, are in general less passionate and more focused on how they're perceived by others by having a hot girl on their arm. They think a good job and a cute wife equals success in the eyes of the community. They seem to be more interested in how I make them look rather than how they can please me. Black guys leave all that status BS aside and just focus on me, what I'm wearing, how great my body looks, how sexy my makeup is, and just ooze sexuality and physical attraction. They, mostly, without much effort, make me feel like I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. What's not to love?

MariaDerby · Answer

I'm really shocked with most answers, ONLY STEREOTYPING. One question, why do black girls who date white guys always say they treat them better, like a Queen and white girls say this about black guys? The grass is always greener on the other side. I know more than enough black guys who lack confidence, who are fat, skinny, short as hell. I know tons of non black guys who have swagger most black guys can't compete with, athletic ones, many who can dance and have rhythm. I know many many black guys with high pitch voices and white guys with deep sexy voices who makes your pants wet. Some girls should move out of their little world and open their eyes, lol. Maybe you should visit Europe, the men are FIIINNNEEE. White people have not a bit pride, they always insult themselves. Not one black girl I know who only dates white guys, would ever insult black guys. They love black guys, because they are their uncles, fathers etc. Why should a black guy date a white girl, when you have the same characteristics as white guys (Stereotype Alarm) small lips, flat asses, no family bound. You also complain that white guys don't respect they mothers, but are you better? Do white girls respect their mothers. In my opinion white guys respect their mother more. Self hate at it's best.

They aren't better in bed either, it's your fault if you pick the wrong guys or can't turn them on. I had good and bad experiences with both. They aren't really bigger either.

There was this white man at an office where I worked, and all the women were into him. He was fine as hell (according to everyone, black, white, Asian, Latina whoever said the same thing) and he knew exactly what to say. He was the type to make grown women giggle just from looking in their direction. Maaan, the way women were pawning over him, you would have thought he was the CFO, not the janitor. No black or hispanic man who work or ever worked at the office had such an impact on the women.

CierraChan · Answer

Well, I can certainly say that black guys are just as good looking as white/hispanic/asian guys. Aside from that, it's more of a girl wanting to be rebellious,.

And to answer this; "Ive seen perfectly decent, smart white girls go for the most wasted black guys, simply because their black " well, the fact is girls have low self esteems in general and if a decent looking guy stars talking and flirting with her. Well, she'll date him and do damn near anything for him. No matter if he's a thug or not.

My personal experince, my current boyfriend is black, I dated him because I was bored over the summer and our relationship is complicated, on/off, and I love him more than anything. I don't care that he's black, because we get a lot of hate from his family because his mom wants him to date only black girls and she's publically humilated me before. So simply put I'm not with him because he's black, but because he boosts my self esteem (refrence back to the fact a lot of girls lack a self esteem) and I've grown to love everything about him, good and bad.

roenoak · Answer

Um... here's the generally accepted explanation: A successful black man will seek out a white woman over a black woman. A successful black woman will seek out a white man over a black man (although this isn't as true, it's still generally true). White women who date black men do so generally because they have not been able to find dates with white men.

Ok, I know there are plenty of exceptions to this rule. I know many of you will be able to cite examples that are not consistent with the above explanation. The question is, though, a general one and therefore the response has to be general. So, I'm talking about the rule, not the exceptions to the rule.

Until black males get their act together in terms on income levels, education levels, stop fathering kids then running away, stop the "cool pose" posturing, etc. I don't think too many white women are going to be thinking they are too sexy. There's a lot of articles and data about how more and more black females are starting to consider non-black males because of these statistics which are sad, but true. I know I'm not being politically correct, but at least I'm basing my post on real data and real trends.

Lastly, if I'm a black man, I'd think twice about making a big deal about genitalia size. The biology of mammals is such that the more advanced the animal, the smaller the genital size. A horse is hung bigger than a lion; a lion's bigger than a gorilla; a gorilla's bigger than... well OK, I think you get the idea. This is why I never got why black dudes would brag about this. It's embarrassing.

jeeperss · Answer

i personally prefer white guys and am white. I don't know if it is a fashion trend or not, though I've seen it, it isn't very prominent where I live.

but if I had to say, I think these days being "black and gangsta" is supposed to be cool. actually, I don't know if that's true. apparently being emo and a scene kid is cool?

but interracial dating is becoming more and more prominent. I'd like to think it's perhaps because people are becoming more open to the idea that race is not a boundary within which we should enclose ourselves. instead, we feel freer to consider people from other ethnic backgrounds as potential partners, based on personality as well as attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly I think the obsession with hip-hop/rap nowadays and its image might have SOMETHING to do with it...

I have nothing against interracial couples, and don't take this the wrong way, but I think people are being influenced by the mass media and it's caused a growth in certain trends. I think people do get carried away tho. Like any mature individual is gonna tell you that the "gangsta-image" is a bad image to uphold, but an immature girl might find it attractive simply because she's so influenced by her favorite rap-artist.

Nothing wrong with interracial dating, but some people are in it for the WRONG reasons, just like what could happen in ANY relationship.

Just my opinion...

katiesmuff · Answer

I am a white girl and been dating black men all my life. Have had tree as live in bf's and am currently going on year 4 with the one I am with now.

I think some of the attraction might have been the taboo at first, but have found these men to treat me much better than any white guy did. My girlfriends don't hear from me that my guy is all about himself in and out of the bedroom as I hear them complain about their guy.

I am very attracted to the black skin and when it is against my white body that alone sends waves of pleasure through me. I will not hesitate to have mixed race children when the time is right.

Anonymous · Answer

actually its not like that at all

white girls go for black guys because they want a little adventure in their life

or more a likely they want to be accepted

white guys theese days are asshole and black guys are more there

they give you attention

or maybe we have a secrate they only know about

or they understand or can relate to certian things they are going through

it is defenlty not a fashon trend

and some of the most wasted black guys

can keep a gurl happy and in a relationship for a long time

unlike white guys who just like to play around

bacially they arnt real all white boys do is play games

EllieLovesUall · Answer

I love black men because they are very masculine,sexy, and generally very sweet. Black people are just really outgoing and fun to be around. Black people also have big sexy juicy lips and that is very attractive. Well and I have to agree with INeverLovedU lol Black men are usually always big down there hahaha

Kirkpatrick · Answer

God knows this is the biggest can of worms!   In white families it's the girls who get spoilt; in black families it seems to be the guys.  This should give you a clue.  I think the answer is: the white girls want to put the white guys noses out of joint and the black guys are only too happy to oblige.  Both get extra kudos for 'f***ing up de white man' and they can pretend to their hearts content that this is what they are doing while they f*** each other.  Very good luck to them, I say, they deserve each other. Then there's the issue of white girls who think they're black - the only thing more pathetic is white guys with the same problem.  MInd you, these self-same people are usually the first to tell any black girl brave enough to date a white man she's a 'whore' or the white guy in question he's a 'trophy hunter'.  Ain't multi-culturalism great?

shf84 · Answer

Ha ha ha ha. I don't know but  I  remember up in Utah their was on black  guy at a table in a restaurant surrounded by like  5 of  these blond white girls. It could just be the whole hip hop thing, I went through my "whigger" phase when I  was young hip hop made black people like stars or something. Then theirs the thing with white guys chasing Asian girls that one I don't know what's going on. At least it will mix up the DNA a little and get rid of some of the cob webs, should make us healthier and more disease resistant if nothing else.

rosalie13 · Answer

im sorry but I am a sucker for a cute black guy...i don't know what it is...i guess it will have to be personality..and that I love basketball and football and when I play with the guys in my town they are all black..and black guys are athletic and I like that in a guy..i was in a dance crew and I was the only white person there. there were two other girls but they were black...so I guess that's what it is..

bonitachica1191 · Answer

I always liked black guys. Their skin color is so sexy its just like chocolate and iw anna kiss him everywhere haha :P I've never dated one unfortunatly but hopefully I will someday  because most black guys I've met have been realy nice. and another things is recently someone told me black guys like white girls because they are more "obedient" in bed and that just turns me ooooooonnnnn (whether its true or not idk) haha I love a man who can take charge of me :P

miss_sda · Answer

I'm sorry. but you're no better than the guys that you are degrading. be the man that you claim to be and never ask another one of these questions that would get people so upset. you're only proving to most people that black guys can be concieted. Beauty is only skin deep. & it's called Viagra. No need to show off when you should be thanking the white guys that produces your white girls! it's a give and take.

sillyzgal2012 · Answer

I LOVE ALL BLACK GUYS! Sexy as hell, and it's true that they are bigger then most white guys. If you know what I mean. Truthfully I love more sophisticated black guys. I don't always go for the thugs. But it's true that most girls tend to go for the bad boy role rather then going for the ones who you see that look and act nice. It's that way for blacks and white people. No it not a race thing it's happens with every guy.

kcm_05 · Answer

I think that some blsacvk guys are just plain HOT! lol I only dated one and that was back in jr high... I think that some girls find black men to be more msaculine than other races... but I don't kno I find all races attractive for different reasons..

Klary1307 · Answer

I personally have only dated black men. I am white and think I was just born that way! I was always rooting for the black family on Family Feud when I was little, and I liked hip-hop and just the black culture in general at a very young age. Now, I can't imagine myself with any other race. I don't even like the way white guys smell lol..I love the natural scent of a black man, their style, their hair, their families, their confidence, and they always seem to be more manly and aggressive in getting what they want. I could go on and on...oh! and not to mention they are MUCH more passionate in bed, and don't just act like they want to pound it like a lot of white boys out there! ;)

sweetycakes · Answer

ITS NOT BECAUSE THE COLOUR ITS JUST WHAT SOME PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO IM ATRACTTED TO ALL TYPES.. LIKE T.I FOR INSTANCE I FIND HIM VERY SEXY  I FIND AKON VERY SEXY I ALSO FIND BRADD PITT AND ENRIQUE IGLEGLASIAS OH AND JASON SATHAM. MOST WHITE GIRLS DO SEEM TO BE MORE ATTRACTED TO BLACK BOYS I THINK ITS SOMETHINK TO DO WITH THE WAY THERE FACE LOOKS LIKE FACIAL FEATURES ITS HARD TO EXPLAIN.

psyche_gurl1 · Answer

The fact that my boyfriend was black honestly did not cross my mind at all when we first started dating.  I thought that he was very smart and funny and that's really all that it took.  I think that because we are different culturally it does add a bit of excitement and uniqueness to our relationship but it's not what makes up the entirety of it.

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