Honestly, ignoring them is the absolute best thing to do and really the only truly effective revenge. Don't respond to text messages. This drives them crazy. And if he facebook chats you? Don't just ignore him and logoff. Ignore him and stay online and update your status and post on other people's walls like normal so he KNOWS your active and you just don't give a rat's ass about him. In my experience if you do this he'll keep contacting you because you've turned the tables and hurt HIM and he just needs your response to ease the pain. DON'T do it. He deserves the pain. After all, just think about how many girls he's caused pain to. Do it for them. Don't respond to the ignorant jerk. And if you see him in public? Ignore him. If you feel like you really have to give him something, act disgusted. And just give him a dirty look. If he comes over to say hey, ignore him. It will make him feel awful and like a complete loser, especially if he's with his friends. If it would make you seem awkward by not saying hi, just give a meek hi and don't make much eye contact and act totally immersed in conversation with someone else. Personally, I just love walking by and noticing that he's staring at me and completely ignore him. It's the most power you'll get when faced with a true player. Good luck ladies! I know pretending like you don't care at first is hard, especially when you've already given some of yourself to this person, but after some time you'll realize that you really don't care and your life is much better without them in it!