It took me over a year to get over a three year relationship. I've finally gotten to the point of being OK alone. I'm not necessarily trying to date anyone, but I know I don't want to go back to that relationship. But it hurt, it took a lot of time, and a lot of weed to get her out of my mind. Love is stronger than any drug. It almost inhibits me from pursuing any relationship because I don't want to ever have to feel like that again.