After a week apart she says she misses me and wants to get back together. I take her out to dinner and shower her with love. Later that night she says she can't lie to me and said she has been seeing another guy the past week. They were talking while we were together and she actually hung out with him the night after we broke up. They fooled around together and she realized she made a huge mistake and wanted to be with me. I was so distraught and heart broken I never saw this coming.
Months go by and she moves in with my and we are happy on the outside...but my mentality was still damaged and no matter what I did I could never feel better after what she did. I felt the only way to make myself feel better was to cheat on her. This was the biggest mistake of my life. I had sex once with a girl and it was cold and emotionless. I knew then I made a huge mistake and rushed back home to my gf. I never told her what happened and she found out the hard way. Last week while I was sleeping she went through my phone and saw the texts I sent to this girl. She even saw pictures of us holding hands on Facebook and my girlfriend went insane. She smashed pictures of us and even the blackberry I paid for her to use so I know she was safe in the city.
This past week I sent her flowers wrote her poems. I am even reading relationship books on how to get back together and pick up the pieces. My girlfriend always called me an alcoholic which is hard to be when you are 21 but I even told her I am going to go to AA meetings cause I know that is what she would want. I am writing her songs and sending her emails telling her how sorry I am and how I have ruined both our lives.
She said she is disgusted by my and wants nothing to do with me. She also said she would never get back together and that its over forever. She could never forgive me.
Someone please help! I cheated because I thought it would help me escape these thoughts of her going outside the relationship while she knew me and was with me. I want her back so badly. I will do counseling or anything it takes to be with her again.
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