My boyfriend never gave me a Valentine gift or Christmas gift or birthday gift. what do I do about it?

So I've been with this guy for about 4 months. We started as friends and then began hooking up. Then after about a month we became official. I got him a gift for his birthday, then we didn't exchange Christmas gifts nor did he get me a birthday gift in January. It started in November its not mid February our relationship. About 2 months into our "relationship" he told me he no longer wanted to hangout with my best friend. I let it go. But then he started accusing me of cheating and spending time with his friends. I threatened to take a break. But we worked it out. He even pressured me into doing inappropriate things I did not want to do. Now for Valentine's day he says he forgot to give me his gift. Is he lying or does he not really care about me?