Wow, lots of information there.
I think you might have even told yourself what is going on here. You took to long to make a move. There is a theroy that you can never go to slow, and that women love antisipation. and then there's the thought that without some sort of forward movement, you are SOL. You have to find a middle ground.
I take it you know where she lives, and kinda what her schedual looks like. I have two ideas for you. depending on your personality, and what you think would have the best impact.
1) Drop by her home at some point when you know she will be home, and talk to her about the whole thing, be a listener AND a talker. see if you can't make your feelings clear.
2) Write the whole thing out in a note, and leave it at her home. (In her mailbox if you can.) Perhaps with a gift. some of her favorite flowers if you know what they are. Make sure you read over the not and check for spelling errors! And please, do make an attempt at being mildly romantic.
Good Luck man!
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maybe this is why she hasn't had a boyfriend in a while. she gets to a certian point with a guy and then cuts herself off from him (in this case you) because she's been hurt in the past. has she ever mentioned anything about her past boyfriends?
hooking up with other girls probably wasn't a great idea either, she probably got word that you have been with other girls and now thinks you've lost interest.
you gotta step up if you want to be with her. show up at her place randomly, ler her know how you still have strong feelings for her, and ask her out to be your girlfriend. if she asks you about the other girls, let her know that they were just a one time thing and that you want to be with her and no one else.
Somewhat the same thing is happening to me, but because i’m a girl, i know what you should do when she acts like this. Ask her whats going on, because girls like it when boys starts the chat. She’ll continously say “nothing” but keep on trying. If you want to, come to her place so that you can talk face to face. It’s always better to meet than to talk through chats. Anyways, can u tell me what I as a girl should do when my crush is acting distant in chat but not in real life? He started being like that when we met and i was mad because of my sister but he thought i was mad at him. Even though i told him that Im not mad at him and even came to him and talked face to face, he's still acting like this. Whenever i chat him before, he always asks what i’m doing, but ever since one day, i have to do initiate everything she no longer will.
Maybe she is scared, or maybe she found out something about you that she didn't like, but mainly I think she's scare to fall in love
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u should have text her first
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