Anyway, b/c of all this, my boyfriend didn't take my classes very seriously and when I told him I got my yellow belt he just laughed. A lot. And when he was done laughing, well, I was kinda mad and so I challenged him to a wrestling match.
We're the same height but has at least 40lbs on me, and he didn't want to do it at first but after I said 'your just afraid of losing to a girl' he was like, "OK, let me teach you a lesson'.
So we moved some furniture out of the way and we got going and he didn't try very hard at first, b/c he just didn't think he'd have to!
But then I tripped him w/a leg sweep and he went down on the floor, and I could see his face get all red and when he got back up he started trying really hard to beat me. Well, long story short, I kept using throws and leg sweeps to send him to the floor, and waited till he got really tired, and then when I could tell his strength was running out, I kept him down on the floor and after a fairly long struggle, I pinned him!
So I had a little laugh at his expense and said "I hope you learned YOUR lesson", but since then he hasn't let it go, and kept after me for a rematch, saying "I got lucky", etc...so last week I finally said "OK" to one more match b/c he wouldn't stop asking, and, yes, I beat him again.
Now he's TOTALLY bent out of shape and keeps trying for another match to prove he can beat me and I need help b/c I'm sick of his attitude!
Is this really such a blow to his ego??
Was I wrong to defeat him?
Should I just fake it and let him win? (I don't think I should have to)
I keep telling him it's just b/c I know judo and he doesn't but he's still
(also, when I suggested we take classes together so he could compete w/me better, he said "I don't need to know judo to beat a girl!" )
what should I do???
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