Surprising a girl with flowers?

[zdub220]

So I was wondering girls how would you react if someone that you knew just surprised you with flowers? I was wondering because me and this girl are on bad terms and its like an on off type game and I wanna try something new and buy her favorite flowers and set them on her car so she can get them sometime in the morning or whenever. How would she react to them? Any feedback would be great. I'd do it in person but I don't know if she works or where I can find a place to do it at. Thanks.

[MyAssumption]

I can't tell you how SHE'D react, but I can tell you how I'D react. That idea sounds really sweet and romantic. I'd think it was flattering. As long as you leave a note on the flowers, I don't think it will mind much that you didn't do it in person - in fact, I think it would work better not being in person. That way it takes any pressure off of her reaction, she doesn't have to give the right impression, she can just enjoy the gift. That's my thoughts, at least

So few people do things like this any more. I think this is a really wonderful idea.

One question, though - is this intended to initiate something between the two of you, or have you already been together and are trying to get over a fight?

[zdub220]

I still care for the girl so much and me and her keep fighting and going on and off and this time she hasn't came back yet so maybe I gotta step it up and this is what I'm going to do. I just hope that It works and I'd be so crushed if she just took them threw them away or not even cared.. /:

[MyAssumption]

Well, unless she really hates you now, I don't think she'd be able to not care about something so heartfelt. She may not appreciate the gesture, if she's very angry, but she'll care. She might throw them away, you should be prepared for that. But probably she'll feel flattered. If she DOES throw them away, then she really does not want to get involved with you again, and you need to get out fast, and try to move on.

[mangageek]

i would be happy to get flowers from a guy, no guy has ever bought me a gift like that before. but if you are on bad terms it may confuse her a bit even though it's a nice gesture. she may think there are strings attached so make sure your intentions are clear by how you write the card. hope this helps!

[zdub220]

Any suggestions on what I should write in the card?

[margieb80]

If you want to make amends, just put "I'm sorry" and your name... don't try something grand, keep it simple but nice, otherwise she could get confused on your intentions...

[zdub220]

See I really hope this works cause I've tried everything and I care for this girl so damn much. I can't seem to shake her. If only she knew I know we wouldn't be where we are at now. I just wanna wrap my arms around her and give my expression off to her just to let her know that I truly care about her. We go on and off like I said but every time she would come back. Do you honestly think she'll like it?

[mangageek]

i think she will. margie has a good point about the card, I second that. it is a sweet gesture, who could get really mad over receiving a gift? that's not rational

[couchfry666]

awhh that's really sweet. as for the card, write what you feel

[zdub220]

I hope she likes it. Thank you. I've tried everything and I care about this girl so much. Would this be my opening or do you think she'll just burn the flowers and not care...

[couchfry666]

haha I'm sure she won't burn the flowers and not care. Every girl likes getting flowers, and they are perfect for saying sorry. Don't stress too much about it. Maybe try just writing 'I'm sorry' on the card and then maybe say a few things about how you feel about her. It might also be a good idea to maybe take her out on a date to a really fun place [:

[kheserthorpe]

If she likes you but is mad, it will help.

If she's not that into you, she'll be creeped out.

Flowers don't generate attraction, they make girls happy when they get someone they found attractive.

[cavmanier]

It will help if she's mad and you and your apologizing.

[ColtsFanForever]

she will like. Everytime I took a girl out I gave her flowers and she they told me they loved them

[sweet_18]

Anytime you give a girl flowers it's like, OMG yay because flowers are awesome. Do it :)))