Not usually. Guys that have trouble forming a bond with women take a very long time to finally mature. It's not to say they never will, it's just risky and unlikely to be you. It would be one thing if you just simply "heard" he was a player, but you pretty much know first-hand. Also, there's a difference if he just wasn't meeting the right girl, or enjoys stringing them along for sex/attention and hurt them without remorse.
I'd make him work for it, hard. You don't have to agree to anything, just see how far he is willing to go. If he's really going to change, he'll show it through consistent respect and attention on you. A player who's lying can't sustain that for very long before their disrespect comes out, he sleeps with other girls, stops showing as much affection, etc. You literally have to agree to nothing, just see what he does before you get your emotions involved. Also, don't take it personally if it doesn't go the right way. Odds are, he loves himself way more than he's capable of loving others right now.
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I give people the benefit of the doubt- I trust them until they personally give me a reason not to trust them
"Distant" was right on. I concluded my answer after simply reading the title. DO NOT TRUST HIM! Jerks like this guy make me mad cause they don't know how to treat a woman with respect and are little boys in reality
All I have to read to answer this is the tittle and the answer is "No, you can't.". What makes you any more special than all of the other girls that he's told the exact same thing?
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