What is it about me?

First off, I have an unbelievable girlfriend, but it's always a good ego boost when somebody checks you out.

I attribute it to my looks because nobody really approaches me or talks to me. I get "Awww!" and "You're like a teddybear" (which is what people say about fat people, but I'm 5'8" and 155 pounds), which I don't consider compliments.

Don't say "It's your smile", because that's... obviously not a real smile. Hair? Flannel? Height? I'm lost. My head would especially be spinning if I happened to be single. Woo-wee.


Most Helpful Girl

  • more often than not when people feel like they usually got unnoticed or under-appreciated, it's more an issue with yourself rather than with others. Are you not all that confident? I've learned that the saying 'reality is what you make of the situation' is really true.

    if you go about very self-conscious, people will probably notice and it's just human nature to pick on the 'underdog' so to say. try acting almost a little too sure of yourself, and hopefully that'll help turn things around. :)


What Girls Said 5

  • The teddy bear comment comes from your cheeks obviously. You have teddy bear cheeks, the kind that old people would pinch if you were small enough for it to be appropriate lol. It's not an insult to be cute by the way. I'm guessing you prefer something like "hot" or "sexy" or "handsome"?

    Just be happy it isn't "ugly" ;-)

  • I don't get what you are asking

    • Most of the time, it feels like I'm invisible. That's basically what I meant. I was wondering why that might be.

  • I think you're cute. I'm sure many girls would agree. maybe you come off as friendly and like a really nice guy and that's also why girls take interest in you.

    I too don't understand why guys check me out. I am guessing I come off as friendly. People say I'm cute so I guess its that too.

    Im sure you're an awesome person. You should be alittle more confident. I don't think you can question why people like you. They just do. There could be a million reasons why they would. :D

  • I think you're cute. You don't look massive so it isn't your weight. You've got a baby face, and that's always a plus. Mixed with the fact that you're shy, however, I'm guessing is the turn off. Girls like confident men for the most part. No worries though, you found yourself a girlfriend.


What Guys Said 1

  • Physical looks is to a good presentation that will leave a lasting impression. I am guessing you are probably easy on the eyes for most girls so that is why they look at you. If you are not too geeky, not too much of an A**-hole, then you've got balance and balance is what most of us aim for.

    • All I am is shy -- at first. And what happened to chicks loving a**holes?

    • That is temporary