I'm 22 years old, My husband is 28 years old. I've been married almost for one year now and I'm 39 weeks pregnant. After getting married, I moved in with my husband and his mother to his place. My husbands father passed away a few months before our wedding. I've heard that my mother I law never had a good, close relationship with her husband. She was so attached to her son(my husbnad is her only son, where she has two other daughters) and she never really bothered about her husband. To be honest, when her husband passed away, she didn't seem so sad about it either, she could take it well.on the other hand, my deceased father-in-law also didn't have a really close relationship with her, but he was jelous of her being close to his son and vise versa.
even before we got married, my husband was very affectionate towrds his mother. And I later found out, that everytime he gifted me something he has been getting his mother something as well. Sometime it has been the same thing.
Now that I'm living with them, I'm experiencing lots of things where his mum tries to push her self between us. Everytime we go out, for shopping or something, he's sure to get his mum something. His mother is lik 63 years old, and he wants her to dress like 30, he gets her young looking outfits. Every morning, while we lie on the bed, his mum will come upstairs calling him, and he will just jump out of the bed and go and greet her and talk to her leaving me on the bed. Sometimes he would leave me on the bed alone, and go out and call his mum. When he comes homes from work, if I want to stay with him in the garden chairs, everytime, he would call out for his mum, to join us. He gives valentine gifts to both me and his mum. and there are many more incidents like this. Sometimes, if I was in the bathroom, and he was on the bed, once I come out of the room, I find her on the bed chit chatting with my husband. She does makesure, that every moment I'm not there with my huband, she's there with him. And my husband wants my mother to join us when we are together. Even while wathcing TV or a movie. She wants to go to movies with us as well.
please counsell me. If this is something to be stopped, tell me how to do it. I've tried explaining it to him, But he will just get angry with me instead of understanding. If its somethingnot to be bothered about, tell me how to make mty mind.
even before we got married, my husband was very affectionate towrds his mother. And I later found out, that everytime he gifted me something he has been getting his mother something as well. Sometime it has been the same thing.
Now that I'm living with them, I'm experiencing lots of things where his mum tries to push her self between us. Everytime we go out, for shopping or something, he's sure to get his mum something. His mother is lik 63 years old, and he wants her to dress like 30, he gets her young looking outfits. Every morning, while we lie on the bed, his mum will come upstairs calling him, and he will just jump out of the bed and go and greet her and talk to her leaving me on the bed. Sometimes he would leave me on the bed alone, and go out and call his mum. When he comes homes from work, if I want to stay with him in the garden chairs, everytime, he would call out for his mum, to join us. He gives valentine gifts to both me and his mum. and there are many more incidents like this. Sometimes, if I was in the bathroom, and he was on the bed, once I come out of the room, I find her on the bed chit chatting with my husband. She does makesure, that every moment I'm not there with my huband, she's there with him. And my husband wants my mother to join us when we are together. Even while wathcing TV or a movie. She wants to go to movies with us as well.
please counsell me. If this is something to be stopped, tell me how to do it. I've tried explaining it to him, But he will just get angry with me instead of understanding. If its somethingnot to be bothered about, tell me how to make mty mind.
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