I have learned a few things throughout the years and i came up with some that would have really helped me:
1. Dont take anything seriously
2. Dont let your loyalty make a fool out of you
3. Dont chase after anyone that does'nt want to be chased
4. Dont allow people to be in a place where they control how you feel
5. If they go silent on you when you need them, they are'nt meant to be with you
Anyone have any thoughts on this? Anything to add?