I, for one, loved being in my 30s and I love being in my 40s. In my experience, most every thing gets better (including sex if you were wondering)
Life doesn't stop at 30, your 30s are when you really come into your own, so I would humbly suggest embracing it and certainly not fearing it. You can't stop it anyway and life is definitely worth living in your 30s and forwards.
Ach don't worry about it. It's just a man made number to marginalise people in society. Nothing changes. You don't start feeling older or change in any way. People treat you different right enough especially younger people trying to tell you you should be more mature and do things differently. You think fuk off. How the hell would you know what to be at this age. You aren't even at this stage yet ya spotty little shit lol
When you were much younger you always thought 30 was old. It's amazing that now you're almost that age, your perspective as widely changed. You still feel youthful! You still feel full of life!
Stazy, tha's soo true !!! It's weird when i realize that dating a 18 years old girl is now considered weird... specially because i feel a 18 years old boy.
I've heard, you're only as old as you look. Scientists have discovered that some people actually grow physically younger during periods of their lives due to good food and good sleep. Age IS just a number. I've seen 20 year olds who look 30 and 30 year olds who look 20.
I myself look very young for my age. And I intend to keep it that way =)
I'm 30 and physically feel and look the same as my 20s and I haven't slowed down. For me, my worry is still being single, pressure I might never have a family if I don't find the right girl soon (women in mid 30s have high risk pregnancies) Being single might be why I feel young, my body might be holding onto youth so I can still get a partner and looking youthful helps. I think 40 is starting to feel old.
Only thing I'm bothered by is I'm almost 30 and still feel like I've never been loved or in love. I worry nothing real will ever happen for me. Otherwise my shit is basically together. I worry I'm missing out on human interaction more than necessary.
Lol, tell me about it. I will be 50 in December. Yes, the big FIVE OH. But you know what, it's really not a big deal because deep down I feel 29. When I was 29, 50 seemed ancient! Lol. Now I'm actually looking forward to it :)
The funny thing is, any milestone birthday is scary. I felt the same way when I was a teen. I thought 20 was old, then I got over it. The same feeling comes again at 30. After your 30's people seem to come to a grips with it and see birthdays as birthdays.
That's bull take care of your body and skin. Eat right and use proper moisturizers and repair products and you'll be fine. I have about 140 FB friends a little less than half are women between 55 and 60 they ate right exercised before and after their kids and look pretty much the same as when we graduated between 74 and 80. Some of them packed on the weight. But a lot Rollerblade Fort Lauderdale and South Beach, run, train for the Disney Half Marathon and most of us belong to LA Fitness. Don't sweat the small stuff you have 30-40 good years sweetie. You'll have your heart broken you'll have kids to take to Disney enjoy it it's a wild ride.
Never forget my 30th. That's when I killed off the old me. Who I was before 30 and who I am now are two polar opposites. I finally internalised one harsh truth: death and time wait for no one. That's why I believe fully that men who battle with women must see prostitutes and not be ashamed of it (for casual sex anyway). And some of my other crazy ideas.
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Yeah I hate aging too... although I'm just 24 and 30 is 6 years far away... I like ma current age but man time passes very quickly u know... I remember it was just like yesterday when I was 18... so one day I'll be 44 widout even realizing it...
Last thang I want's to look as old as dat guy in yer last pic... hope it never happens but if it happens I feel like I'll hate maself everyday more and more...
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Happy birthday anyway when it hits ;)
30 didn't bug me much.
I turned thirty-ten this year. Didn't bother me at all -_-
I feel that the older people on here are sugar coating it. They are not telling you everything. Besides they can tell you they are in perfect health today and be told tomorrow that they have six months to live. There are no guarantees in life stuff like cancer can pop up at any age for anybody.
I mean that's how Society want people to see it once somebody turns 25. All im saying is just because we are getting a little older it going to happen we all get old. Im just saying keep a fresh young mind. I'm glad you get flirted with often. All feel young never forget.
Why am I not tagged in this? Actually the 30s are way better than your 20s. At least for me. I can still pull in whatever I want and the sex is endless! You'll be ok 😉
nice take. loved the part about the work you lave behind is all that matters. see? i dont hate all your takes as you accuse me. you write some decent ones.
Well, I've written 71. I would say you have a lot of homework to do. Its impossible for someone to agree with everything I write, although I have reached those that seem to never disagree with me. Its all good. Im just here to give "my"take like this section of gag is intended for and that is all.
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I, for one, loved being in my 30s and I love being in my 40s. In my experience, most every thing gets better (including sex if you were wondering)
Life doesn't stop at 30, your 30s are when you really come into your own, so I would humbly suggest embracing it and certainly not fearing it. You can't stop it anyway and life is definitely worth living in your 30s and forwards.
I wish I knew about 40 year old women when I was 30 sex is spectacular... Even in my 50s, I love women in their 40's
Ach don't worry about it. It's just a man made number to marginalise people in society. Nothing changes. You don't start feeling older or change in any way. People treat you different right enough especially younger people trying to tell you you should be more mature and do things differently. You think fuk off. How the hell would you know what to be at this age. You aren't even at this stage yet ya spotty little shit lol
I wish I had the 30's scare!
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When you were much younger you always thought 30 was old.
It's amazing that now you're almost that age, your perspective as widely changed.
You still feel youthful!
You still feel full of life!
Stazy, tha's soo true !!!
It's weird when i realize that dating a 18 years old girl is now considered weird... specially because i feel a 18 years old boy.
Weird weird weird.
I've heard, you're only as old as you look. Scientists have discovered that some people actually grow physically younger during periods of their lives due to good food and good sleep. Age IS just a number. I've seen 20 year olds who look 30 and 30 year olds who look 20.
I myself look very young for my age. And I intend to keep it that way =)
I'm 30 and physically feel and look the same as my 20s and I haven't slowed down. For me, my worry is still being single, pressure I might never have a family if I don't find the right girl soon (women in mid 30s have high risk pregnancies) Being single might be why I feel young, my body might be holding onto youth so I can still get a partner and looking youthful helps. I think 40 is starting to feel old.
Only thing I'm bothered by is I'm almost 30 and still feel like I've never been loved or in love. I worry nothing real will ever happen for me. Otherwise my shit is basically together. I worry I'm missing out on human interaction more than necessary.
Lol, tell me about it. I will be 50 in December. Yes, the big FIVE OH. But you know what, it's really not a big deal because deep down I feel 29. When I was 29, 50 seemed ancient! Lol. Now I'm actually looking forward to it :)
You looking forward to menopause?
@meesh1220 You look amazing!
@Toutou
Haha! No more periods, hell yeah.
@Robbey
Awww thank you! :)
Good Take, damn, how should I feel, I'm scared of turning 40 :P
Haha. I can't imagine when I do. How does it make you feel?
It makes me feel kinda depressed :(
~hugs~ I feel your pain. Lets cry together
Oww, thanks for the hug :)
Plus you dont look 40. We will forever be young at heart
Thank you, I hope you're right ;)
I'm only 17, and I'm scared of turning 20. Haha. I don't know what to do.
The funny thing is, any milestone birthday is scary. I felt the same way when I was a teen.
I thought 20 was old, then I got over it.
The same feeling comes again at 30.
After your 30's people seem to come to a grips with it and see birthdays as birthdays.
Age 20 , you realize you are an adult (scary thought when youve been a teen or kid your whole life)
Age 30, you realize you won't be young forever and within ten years you'll be considered "middle aged"
Both are turning points
That's true. The older you get the less you care about aging.
How can you be scared to turn any age, I never was scared and still not because if I turn a year older it happen whether I wanted it to or not.
You still have 7 or 8 years before you start to lose your looks
I'll try to hold on to them as long as I can
That's bull take care of your body and skin. Eat right and use proper moisturizers and repair products and you'll be fine. I have about 140 FB friends a little less than half are women between 55 and 60 they ate right exercised before and after their kids and look pretty much the same as when we graduated between 74 and 80. Some of them packed on the weight. But a lot Rollerblade Fort Lauderdale and South Beach, run, train for the Disney Half Marathon and most of us belong to LA Fitness. Don't sweat the small stuff you have 30-40 good years sweetie. You'll have your heart broken you'll have kids to take to Disney enjoy it it's a wild ride.
Never forget my 30th. That's when I killed off the old me. Who I was before 30 and who I am now are two polar opposites. I finally internalised one harsh truth: death and time wait for no one. That's why I believe fully that men who battle with women must see prostitutes and not be ashamed of it (for casual sex anyway). And some of my other crazy ideas.
Yeah I hate aging too... although I'm just 24 and 30 is 6 years far away... I like ma current age but man time passes very quickly u know... I remember it was just like yesterday when I was 18... so one day I'll be 44 widout even realizing it...
Last thang I want's to look as old as dat guy in yer last pic... hope it never happens but if it happens I feel like I'll hate maself everyday more and more...
Happy birthday anyway when it hits ;)
30 didn't bug me much.
I turned thirty-ten this year. Didn't bother me at all -_-
Thanks, happy belated birthday ! I got several months to go before my big 30.
I feel that the older people on here are sugar coating it. They are not telling you everything. Besides they can tell you they are in perfect health today and be told tomorrow that they have six months to live. There are no guarantees in life stuff like cancer can pop up at any age for anybody.
Once you pass the age of 25, it's all down hill from there. But always try to keep a Fresh Young Mind.
I still get hit on a lot.
What do you mean down hill? In terms of looks or feeling young?
I mean that's how Society want people to see it once somebody turns 25. All im saying is just because we are getting a little older it going to happen we all get old. Im just saying keep a fresh young mind. I'm glad you get flirted with often. All feel young never forget.
Thats true. Good message
One more comment to feel sexy wear thongs g-strings, go commando in the summer time always feel sexy no matter what.
I turn 28 in 5 months. Please @bellegirl21 @WhiteSteve tell me it'll be OK and 30s are just as great as 20s lol pls tell me, even if u have lie Hahaha
The 30's suck hard! People don't think you're sexy anymore lolol.
Jk you'll always be sexy so don't sweat it
30's are fucking awesome!!! I LOVE them, easily the best age so far and I'm betting the 40's will kick ass as well.
@Jager66 haha love it man! great attitude, love it
Why am I not tagged in this? Actually the 30s are way better than your 20s. At least for me. I can still pull in whatever I want and the sex is endless! You'll be ok 😉
@Kris85 omg sorry!!!
your still 20s in my mind i guess? lol
haha i love your take on that, im so ok being 30 now
It's a year and 2-3months away for me. I enjoy getting older personally. I am looking forward to it :D
You will retire soon and collect monthly pension :D
Aw I am fucked in the ass then huh?
Ill be 30 a couple years before you but dont worry ill buy an extra cane for you ! Lets also get those cups ready for our dentures.
nice take. loved the part about the work you lave behind is all that matters. see? i dont hate all your takes as you accuse me. you write some decent ones.
Who are you mystery man? I have a feeling I know who you are if you were to uncheck anonymous.
noone. and no you don't know me. i'm new and i've read just three of your takes. i liked one of the three. ot a bad percentage.
Well, I've written 71. I would say you have a lot of homework to do.
Its impossible for someone to agree with everything I write, although I have reached those that seem to never disagree with me.
Its all good.
Im just here to give "my"take like this section of gag is intended for and that is all.
whats with all the insecure retards downvoting a positive comment?
71? wow you've been a busy girl.
Downvote feature is no longer available on this site.
That box is just showing our message exchange to eachother.
Well, writing is more of a hobby to me than it is work.
why did they remove it? political correctness and all?
They haven't yet given a reason. Every so often they tweak this site, usually members hate it at first but then grow accustomed to it.
My 30's were much better than my 20's, and now my 40's are better than my 30's were so far.
Don't get caught up on age, keep positive and stay fit both mind and body and things just keep getting better!