Why I Will Always Take the Nice Guy Over the Bad Boy

[Ginnyweasley97]

For anybody else who watches the Vampire Diaries, this goes hand in hand why I will always prefer Stefan over Damon. If anyone knows where I can buy a Stefan, do tell. However at this point, I don't think Elena deserves Stefan and Damon doesn't deserve a brother like him.

Long-term relationships require a level of trust beyond what’s naturally extended to a stranger. The “bad boy,” aka jerk, can pick up a lot more dates than the nice guy because they’re typically unpredictable and dominant, which girls are initially intrigued by. However, this is only an initial attraction because the bad burns out. If you don’t become the nice guy fairly quickly, your long-term odds of success are pretty limited.

Egotistical pricks are a turn off. If I can't a conversation with him, without finding every word he says to be revolting, that's a problem. I definitely don't want someone who treats me like shit, I am way too independent for that.

The definition of nice guy might not be what you’d expect. A nice guy does not mean he’s a pushover, doormat, or weak person. A nice guy simply means he doesn’t play games, he’s confident and consistent with himself, and he has strong core values and morals.

I have never been to a party in my life. Granted, I have been invited to many but never went to any. Partying is not my idea of having fun I would rather explore the world and have weird, yet awesome adventures. Adventure is out there!

I want someone who respects my decisions even if he doesn't agree with them, I will pass on the guy who "thinks" he is doing what's best for me. My parents already try to do what's best for me and I don't need a third parent. Respect is extremely important. While I might love the other person, I think self respect is more important and will walk away from any relationship that not longer makes me happy.

Also I want someone with goals and ambition. I can never date someone who has no clue what he is doing with his life and that sounds immature, and I can never date someone significantly less mature than me.

Here's scientific research why nice guys finish first:

I will never get why it is so hard for guys to accept girls do like nice guys. If a girl is in a relationship with a bad guy then she must have her own problems because bad boy=bad relationship or is too insecure to believe that she probably deserves better.

[rjroy3]

It's hard for a lot of guys to accept, because there's a lot of proof of deuce bags getting the girl plain and simple. But to be completely honest, a lot of guys don't even really know the quality of the girls that consistently chooses the badboys anyways. Some girls with high quality looks are just low quality people and simply meeting a confident nice guy isn't what turns her on.

Some great girls can't have a good relationship, because what they are attracted to are guys that don't provide healthy, stable relationships and cheats on the guys that do treat her well. I've met some good guys that got cheated on for no reason past the fact he decided to hangout with his friends one night instead of taking his girl out for the third night in a row. So she cheated on him because she felt "neglected"

You see enough girls consistently choosing guys who are legitimately bad for them and predictably getting dumped or cheated on. It can be pretty convincing to say that girls in general want a bad boy. Because it's "kind of" true, but specifically true for all girls. Damn near all high quality women won't accept a man who treats her poorly. Generally only girls with low self esteem will put up with it, because the idea of suffering with the company of lesser men in her eyes hurts more than putting up with the crap of a guy that turns her on.

[goldielocks2]

usually those 'bad boys' are just frustrated with their love lives and insecure. They're probably had their heart broken by girls in the past and think that lashing out at new girls will somehow bring some sort of retribution for being treated unwell in the past. These are weak men, who will put up a front of confidence and choose to disrespect their ladies because they can and won't put in any effort because they don't feel they have to... Most of them are depressed and empty inside, the mystery wears off very quickly and all your left with is a man who treats you like shit. Fuck bad boys (figuratively and literally if the sex is good and they pay for your dinner haha). And I'm team Stefan too by the way. Always thought he was treated so badly by the writers with the whole Elena storyline. Sweetest boyfriend ever, who would choose him over anyone else.

[CancerianMan81]

what i wanna know is how in the hell did it shift

[goldielocks2]

@CancerianMan81 what do you mean?

[CancerianMan81]

cause one minute every woman I came across was cussing and putting us nice guys down and then the next minute women are saying that they would rather be with nice guys then the bad guys

[CancerianMan81]

I don't understand

[goldielocks2]

@CancerianMan81 there are other factors that might make her reject you. niceness is not the only quality we look for in other people you know.

[CancerianMan81]

well I know that you have to have your shit together too

[CancerianMan81]

but for me that's hard to do cause of my ADHD I'm all over the place with shit

[CancerianMan81]

easily distracted

[CancerianMan81]

I got just more than niceness working for me

[CancerianMan81]

i'm open minded i'm intuitive

[tyber1]

I don't get why paying for dinner even factors in to having sex. Girls are so weird.

[goldielocks2]

@tyber1 it makes girls feel cheap if the guy doesn't pay. well me anyway. Plus if I'm gonna have sex with no commitment he better pay for everything.

[tyber1]

I still don't get it. You're both having sex, I don't see why you think you're doing him a favor.

[goldielocks2]

@tyber1 I have to work extra hard not to get attached and casual sex is not really all that enjoyable to girls. I rarely cum..

[tyber1]

Then why bother with it at all?

Is it really that bad? I can't imagine that it would be that difficult to make a girl cum. Then again I have a few tricks up my sleeve.

[goldielocks2]

@tyber1 for girls it's super psychological. that's why when you pay and act like a gentleman, she's more likely to sleep with you! It takes time to feel comfortable enough to actually enjoy a hook up with someone. It's not bad by any means, but it makes me feel kind of used and I don't know, it's not the real thing. I've heard this somewhere and I think it's true, sex is like pizza , even when it's bad it's good :D

[tyber1]

Women are so weird

[CancerianMan81]

@goldielocks2 your not obligated to get anything if you don't work for it things don't just come to you for free gratis

[goldielocks2]

@tyber1 you could start by not generalising women as a group...

[tyber1]

Didn't you kinda do the same thing?

[smahala1991]

Great points Ginny! From a guys perspective (well, mine more or less) guys who are "bad" tend to be locked up more or become abusive towards their spouses or partners. In my old hometown most of the bad boys the girls went head over heels for were either abusers, meth heads, or straight up assholes. Not just to the girls they were dating but to the other kids as well if they felt someone was making them look bad. The girls who fell for them were equally as bad usually. Most of them have criminal charges, probated , fight all the time or spread drama. Most of this sounds like generalizations im sure but I personally have found it to be proven fact especially the High School I went to where quite a few of the students were troubled. I felt like the odd man out. I was still a virgin my senior year (still am and im 25), I never dated or had been out on a date, i didn't go to random parties unless I was invited weeks n advance then it was only to close friends whom I knew exteremely well, and quite honestly I've had girls who have told me I wasn't "bad" enough because I didn't drink alcohol or smoke week or tobacco, and I was a virgin. All the popular kids were getting drunk and laid often. I guess in a sense it's good not to be a popular kid in most aspects. I know i'm pretty much rambling on here but that's my two cents and I really appreciate you writing this and hearing or reading what we have to say. Even if Im rambling incoherently.

[smahala1991]

I guess really I've personally always been too much like passive doormat. What would be your definition of a bad guy in your words?

[Ginnyweasley97]

Someone overly protective, borderline obsessive, plays games, never texts or calls back, thinks he always does what's best, and reckless.

[smahala1991]

So like stalkerish, abusive, player scumbag types. I personally would define as an abuser, liar, manipulator, and if there's kids involved a deadbeat.

[Fearless_banana]

Yeah she's angry as hell because someone hurt her. That sounds oddly personal.

[Ginnyweasley97]

@Fearless_banana again never had a boyfriend in my life and I ignore the arrogant, loud class clowns I think they're annoying. But go ahead on comment on my post to antagonize me or go to bed like you said you would. I thought people in the marines had high moral standards.

[Fearless_banana]

I know I guess we're all evil.

[Ginnyweasley97]

@Fearless_banana I don't think so. My brother in law was in the marines and wore out the cartilidge in his knees because he marched so far with the rest of his platoon. Again, good night.

[CancerianMan81]

speak for yourself @Fearless_banana

[cth96190]

What I learned when I was a sad and lonely young man was to ignore what women said they wanted and, instead, observe their demonstrated preference. There is a huge difference.
Between the ages of about 15 to 30 the overwhelming majority of females want players, or some version of the sociopathic bad boy. Decent young men are of little to no interest.
After the age of 30, by which time some life experience has given them some common sense, most females become interested in the sort of man who was too 'boring' or not 'fun' enough for these women when they were 20.
I have heard it said that at 38 a woman will kill to get the type of man she rejected when she was 18.
Women on the wrong side of 30 should not be surprised when they are rejected by the men who were once too boring for them.
It is not possible to observe girl after girl throw herself at obvious players and dirtbags, while rejecting decent young men, without forming an unflattering opinion of the female cognitive process.
This is part of the reason behind Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW), which is a significant and growing movement among men. These men have disengaged and walked away from women, as a consequence of observed or personal experiences.
This is why women on the high side of 30 complain about a lack of good men. Here in Australia female media commentators refer to it as the man drought.
These men have not left the planet. They have simply walked away and will likely not return.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Oh look another bitter male. Get in line your not the first and you won't be the last.

[cth96190]

No counter argument?
You will likely not be so quick to offer a bitchy response after you pass 30, are still alone, and the telephone calls fade away.

[Ginnyweasley97]

I am sick and tired of even trying to reason with any who even slightly disagrees with me because my last argument, earned me the insult of whore. Really dude you are almost 60 and you just said that an 18 year old will be lonely for the rest of her life? Obviously it's not millenials that to get some fucking class.

[cth96190]

I did not say that you would be lonely for the rest of your life. Read my post again.
So much anger.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Buddy you are not the first to say an overwhelming amount of women want a bad boy. I know any I want and I am not going to settle. Don't agree? Cool get in line and take a number.

[cth96190]

I shall take a number.
I have seen it and I have lived it.
You may well mean what you say about wanting a good man, but most young females thrive on the rollercoaster ride of drama and heartbreak that comes from dating players and dirtbags.
I have seen it and I have lived it.
I wish you well.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Again I know what I want and it's not with someone that will make me the broken hearted one.

[Marinepilot]

He speaks the truth. Women like the bad boys. Then when they get knock up and used and left by said bad boys, they want the nice guys, Fuck that shit ! If I'm good enough now, why wasn't I good enough then? I quit driving used cars many moons ago.

[AleDeEurope]

Hmm that video doesn't really prove nice people finish first, it just says that nice people finish... whether first or last isn't said in the video.

I think most guys do agree that girls like nice guys... but they don't prefer them. Obviously it depends on age, but most young girls will tend to go for the bad boy type of guy. The older the woman gets, the more she'll prefer nice guys, which actually just proves the theory that nice guys finish last.

I'm not complaining though, cause as a "semi-bad-boy" I don't have much problems, but I have notice, and I think 90% of guys will back me up on this, is that the nicer you are to a girl, the more you do for her before getting in a relationship, the less chances of getting her.
So better save up your niceness for when you get in a relationship, cause that's only when it's going to be appreciated.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Sorry you feel that way. People are constantly opening doors for me, and I make sure they know it's appreciated. Plus I would rather build a relationship based on a friendship.

[AleDeEurope]

It's not the way I feel, like I said, I don't really care cause I'm not the one with the problems, but that's how it works most of the time.

[Bandit74]

Yeah, similarly to how girls can sometimes turn a guy off by being sexual too soon, guys can turn girls off by being nice too soon.

Gotta be hard to get with your niceness lol

[IamLouise]

You mean like a recent question ask asking why girls like assholes/and men who are emotional unavailable from the start?

[RationalMale]

I think one of the problems is that "nice guy" has become a corrupted term. I mean, we all know what the actual definition of nice might be, but it now really means ""boring wimpy sap" or such. "Good guy" might be a better term.

Though kudos to you for being smart enough to want a man who is good from the get go, not a man you eventually will be saying, "I know he seems like garbage but he's actually got a good heart way deep down..." If girls rejected the "bad guys" and only wanted good men, society would be better for it.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Well thank you for that. Arrogance is a huge turn off for me. At least you didn't call me shallow and say this whole take is a lie.

[Fearless_banana]

Stop deluding peoples minds with you shananigans. Nice guys will always finish last because most nice guys lack the fcking testosterone needed to actually make moves on a woman.. Good morals with a touch of arrogance will always win.

I've been a nice guy and I've been a douche bag.. Look at my cover photo lol. Do I lie?

NOTE TO GUYS..
What women say and what women actually want are often contradicting. The worst thing you can do is take advice from a woman on how to get women.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Honestly saying you have been a nice and a dbag was unneeded. I can tell by your profile picture you're an arrogant prick. Never said all women prefer nice guys just me. And me only. I can't speak for other women. But please tell me what I prefer in men. Just like what politicians tell me what to do with my body.

[Fearless_banana]

Sure..

[Fearless_banana]

I'm not an arrogant prick.. I just learned through experience how women operate and knows what works.

[Ginnyweasley97]

And you what? Met every woman and graphed her response. I am lucky I never had the displeasure of meeting you.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Oh yeah and if a guy makes his biceps his profile picture 99.99% of the time, he is an arrogant prick.

[Fearless_banana]

I'm a bodybuilder.. that's what I do. I'm proud of my physique and have every right to show it off.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Well good for you. I work at a hospital I love my job but it's not my profile picture for any social media accounts.

[Fearless_banana]

I work hard day in and day out. It's my craft.. my art. If someone had a hobby of collecting vintage cars.. bought them and spent long hours fixing them up.. would he be arrogant if he posted the before and afters? No. I work hard.

[Fearless_banana]

Well how the hell would you represent your job at the hospital on social media.. pictures of the patients you see? Doesn't really compare. No logic.

[Fearless_banana]

I don't let insecure sexually repressed women try and bring me down to their level. I look good and work hard at it. Stay mad. See how many fcks I give lol. Sounds like you've been hurt by a 'bad guy' and take out your frustrations on guys like me. Go get some good D in your life.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Are you expecting a medal? Well I could have a picture of me in my uniform. But that would be weird. I can't take pictures of my patients for legal reasons. I always thought it was weird someone makes their car their profile pic.

[Fearless_banana]

Well if that is their hobby than who is to hate on that? Not weird at all. You sound judgmental as fck. Do you not have anything else that you are good or excel in?

[AssJacket]

in my opinion it's a false dichotomy. Are guys that get women really assholes? Of course not - women aren't (by and large) that masochistic. Are guys that don't get women really nice guys? Again, no - they're just dudes that are too scared to communicate (either verbally or non-verbally) what they want from women. So, in my world, the guys that finish first are the ones that are somewhere in between. They know what they want, they treat women like they would treat anyone else, and they're also decent human beings.

Annnd... about the OP's last video. The iterative Prisoner's Dilemma doesn't work like that. Richard Dawkins' highly defective logic leaves out key pieces of things, like the fact that the problem is only valid when the *same two players* are used for each iteration. When applied to human interaction and dating, you don't usually get more than 1-2 shots with each person, so in reality you never reach equilibrium. That is, the "Defect" strategy wins most of the time.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Funny. You were just telling me what women like. Because you have met every woman on this planet and can speak for all of them. Too bad that apparently my lady brain is so contradicting.

[Fearless_banana]

Lol you're an 18 year old girl of course it is. Hormones are all over the place. I haven't met every woman on the planet but I have a good amount of experience to know what works and what doesn't. You can attack me from every angle possible.. I don't care. Not going to cower down in your argument and just agree that you are right. You sound angry like some bad guy hurt you and you take your frustrations out on guys like me who have good morals and carry some confidence. I appear to be an "asshole" because I work out right? Try again. I'm calling you out because this little mytake is going to mislead a bunch of guys to go get rejected by a dozen more women.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Great argument you got there. When in doubt attack the girls hormones. Let me guess your next argument was to say I am on my period? Grow the hell up its not high school. And your four years older. Again, I can't speak for every woman I am just me, myself, and, I prefer nice guys. I never said that guys should ask out their crushes.

[Ginnyweasley97]

And you're 22, you have no experience in fact you have barely grazed the surface of life, that I hope fucks you over.

[Fearless_banana]

No you actually don't "Someone overly protective, borderline obsessive, plays games, never texts or calls back, thinks he always does what's best, and reckless." That sounds oddly personal. You went for this guy for a reason.. it didn't just happen. You were attracted to him. Why don't you go out with the nice guy who told you were pretty on facebook or IG? You don't because everyone like a challenge and mystery.. A nice guy will always lose when it comes to dating.. They lack the testosterone to approach and make moves.. they are no challenge.. they are easy.. low value. It's been like that forever and it will stay that way. I'm assuming that guy you described is the guy who broke your heart right? It sucks I know guys can be fcking cruel just as women can be but that's not reason to delude other guys and attack other guys because of your insecurity.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Hahahahahhahahaha
I have never had a boyfriend. Ever. Next time try plan D for dumbass.

[Fearless_banana]

Lol. Was in the Marine Corps although I got medically separated not too long in.. Been homeless before. Went through the police academy while going to community college. Now going to university studying engineering. If you don't believe me then message me and I will literally send you picture proof of everything. I'm an old soul forsure. Do you have another angle you want to attack me at?

[Fearless_banana]

I'm going to bed lol. Have a good life.

[Ginnyweasley97]

uhh how is that relevant?

[Fearless_banana]

"And you're 22, you have no experience in fact you have barely grazed the surface of life, that I hope fucks you over."

[Ginnyweasley97]

I mentioned that because you said how experienced you are. Again, nighty night.

[Fearless_banana]

Ill let you have the last word babe. Night =D

[ILikeToTalkToPeople]

Fearless, do you fuck a lot of girls?

[Fearless_banana]

@ILikeToTalkToPeople I'll let you make that assumption lol.

[ILikeToTalkToPeople]

But is it true? Or is that just the picture?

It's a pretty hot picture

[ILikeToTalkToPeople]

I would fuck that girl definitely...

And if you're doing girls like that on a regular basis... I want to know how you do it...

[Fearless_banana]

@ILikeToTalkToPeople I pull plenty. I had an epic tinder thread on bodybuilding misc but it got taken down to legal issues.

[Fearless_banana]

@ILikeToTalkToPeople You can message me. Can maybe help you out.

[ILikeToTalkToPeople]

You would have to message me...

It says you only get messages from followings...

[LucasGaribaldi]

The title should be: Why i will always take the guy other girls won't lol

[Ginnyweasley97]

More for me.

[LucasGaribaldi]

Would you take a read at a post i wrote? turns out that i just wrote something about exactly this, however, from a point of view i had at some situtations i got...
you dont have to respond nor anything, just a couple interesting situations i found myself into that made me wonder exactly the same thing you wrote about... but from the other side of the things...
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1992104-the-cute-the-hot-question-can-we-be-attractive-at-all

[MyMintFrappe]

I think what is considered "finishing first" is a bit subjective. The nice guy may get the girl much later in life and die happily but weren't successful in dating earlier on. I don't think a lot of guys see that as finishing first. At least in how that video talked about it. In the long run maybe it has an overall better pay off but a lot of people want to have their fun early on in life and getting it later in life doesn't mean as much to them so they didn't really get what they really wanted.

[CancerianMan81]

your full of shit I've always worked to my objective the problem wasn't me it was always the girl that never did want to put in any effort cause you girls so called tradition says that the guy has to do the work in order to get the girl and while I was slaving my ass off the girlfriends that i had all they did was sit on their ass and bitched and complained about how i was doing it

[CancerianMan81]

and telling everybody that i was the problem because I had to much of an attitude problem when they was the reason why I had an attitude problem but they didn't want to admit that

[CancerianMan81]

when me I could care less what people think of me if I have made a mistake I own up to it I don't have to hide behind a mistake that I've done cause mistakes are to learn from and it takes a strong person to do that

[MyMintFrappe]

@CancerianMan81 What the hell are you talking about? I was not talking about anything that you were.

[Bandit74]

"The nice guy may get the girl much later in life and die happily"

Not necessarily. If he ends up in a miserable sexless marriage, or she cheats on him, or it ends in divorce where he is financially ruined by alimony and child support payments then he is the biggest loser in the end.

It's like insult to injury in that case, all the other guys got to sleep with his wife in her younger wild years without having to make any sort of commitment or investment. Then he gets chosen only when its time for buying a house and raising kids, then he still loses :D

He only wins if he ends up in a genuinely satisfying marriage that lasts.

[CancerianMan81]

@Bandit74 it ain't worth it anymore

[CancerianMan81]

your better off having a shitty attitude

[MyMintFrappe]

@Bandit74 I never said it was a guarantee that it would happen.
@CancerianMan81 Dude, seriously you are just rambling on about random shit. Go bother someone else.

[Bandit74]

True, I guess I ignored the "may" part :/

[MyMintFrappe]

@Bandit74 I'm just trying to say that maybe some guys don't see getting a girl later in life (assuming that it happens) as finishing first at all. That they'd rather be able to have quick flings in their teens 20s and maybe early 30s more than being in a committed relationship with a girl who blew them off until later in life.

[Bandit74]

There is definitely some truth to what you say.

[CancerianMan81]

@MyMintFrappe no I'm not rambling on about random shit cause this is how you women makes us men feel anymore cause anymore you women only think of what's in it for you another thing is you don't have a right choosing for what the other person wants in his/her life if a person wants what they want in life that's what they'll get that choice is made by that person and that person alone

[CancerianMan81]

and if anybody wants to contradict what that person wants in his/her life shouldn't belong in that persons life cause their doing more harm than good

[CancerianMan81]

there are 2 main principals for a relationship 1. Trust and 2. Support when you don't have those 2 in a relationship it isn't a relationship whatsoever

[MyMintFrappe]

@CancerianMan81 You need to reread my first message I did not talk about any of the crap you are. I don't MAKE you feel anything. Be an adult and take responsibility for your own feelings. No one respects someone who just moans and bitches and blames all their issues on someone else.

Go bother someone else you psycho.

[0112358]

It's important for guys to ask not just what sort of guy women like, but what sort of guy the women you are interested in, who want the same sort of relationship you want, look for in a man to share that type of relationship with.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I won't lie, I'd fuck the bad guy. And then i'd fuck the good guy and make him my boyfriend. But I would want him to have a similar history to me, with psycho exes stories lol

[123cheesecake]

So, you want the good guy to wait for you. You get to fuck the attractive guys THEN demand someone that saved themselves for you? Hypocrite lol.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@123cheesecake no I said I want a guy with a similar history!

[123cheesecake]

Rekt myself. I'll never skim read again. Sorry. Want to buy a cheesecake?

[SovereignessofVamps]

@123cheesecake ur cute

[shortandsweet24]

I agree wholeheartedly! I'm tired of the arrogant bad boy act and the art of playing games. A straightforward attitude is just so much more attractive in a man. 💜

[CancerianMan81]

thanks

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 okay. 😊

[CancerianMan81]

it makes me cry

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 why is that?

[CancerianMan81]

cause that's what I've been wanting to hear for along time

[CancerianMan81]

you know like I feel like i'm wanted I didn't do anything to women never have all I ever got was being treated like shit a person that gives love should receive love it ain't right by no grandeur whatsoever

[CancerianMan81]

that's the law of attraction

[CancerianMan81]

a person shouldn't have to feel guilty for who they are never but that's people's problem

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 Those are the types pf women you want to avoid. Honestly, I've dated guys like that. And, I met this sweet guy who is younger than me. He was very honest the first time he asked me out and I was so shocked by it that I didn't know how to respond so, I told him I had to get back to him on it. Hoepfully, I will see him again and I haven't missed my opportunity. 😋

[CancerianMan81]

those guys are a lot better aren't they I want to say this nice guys do get over our shyness the thing is it can't take just one half women also have to oblige to for me if both parties put in the work for it it takes the edge off so it wouldn't have to feel as awkward that's the best part cause to me it can get real cute

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 I agree with youon that. I always get nervous around guys I like so, meeting a sweet guy who gets nervous, also, is a rare treat for me.

On that guy I've met, I sincerely hope to see him again and that I haven't missed my shot with him. It would break my heart because he seems so great. I hope that he hasn't met abother girl, by the next time I actually see him. 😋 💜

[CancerianMan81]

yeah i know what you mean

[CancerianMan81]

I'm just sick of the game playing shit

[CancerianMan81]

It pisses me off and gets me frustrated

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 It is stupid. I don't know why anyone would want to. Being honest just gets your point across much more clearly than mindgames would...

[CancerianMan81]

it tells me that that's being fake it does

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 yes. True. And, it sucks. :(

[CancerianMan81]

I've dealt with those kind of people for along time and I just got tired of dealing with'em their nothing but fucking filth their like cancer just looking at'em makes you wanna puke

[CancerianMan81]

ever since I had spiritual awakening my mindset has been totally different

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 well the, good for you. I'm glad that you have a clear mind. And, I hope that you find a woman who appreciates it. 💚

[CancerianMan81]

I just can't understand for the life of me why they want to be like that

[CancerianMan81]

thanks i appreciate that

[shortandsweet24]

@CancerianMan81 And, You're welcome.

[CancerianMan81]

:) right

[Waffles731]

But aren't the protagonists of the vampire diaries still murderous vampires?

[Ginnyweasley97]

I don't watch it every week because I realized how quickly that show went off the deep end. From what I know, Damon is and I find him repulsive. Stefan when he first became a vampire was murderous then cleaned up his act then went through some stage that he wasn't able to stop. Think it was called a ripper.

[Waffles731]

Thats what I rather liked about buffy and angel.
They made no excuses for the times Angel was evil

[BubbleBoy69]

But girls today prioritize:
Social status, swag, money and good looks over all that shit

[Righttobeararms83]

Depends on their age though as girls become more mature what they value changes.

[BubbleBoy69]

@Righttobeararms83 They'll realize that the cool guy/rich guy/hot guy won't commit and/or passing them up for the next batch of hot 20 year olds. They then get some guy who they though they were too good for to settle down and start a family with them.

It isn't about love at this point but desperation to not end up alone and have a financially stable life.

[Righttobeararms83]

Well its true that women with this mindset hit the wall age thirty.

[Ricky5184]

glad there is many girls who prefer the nice guy! I was always put down when a girl I liked chose a thug over me because I was too nice /: but now I finally have a girl who chose me over bad boys (:

[Entruder]

Kudos to you man! ☺

[Ricky5184]

@Entruder thanks lol

[John_Doesnt]

If I had a dollar for every time a woman posted a lie in an attempt to not appear shallow I'd be a millionaire.
Every woman wants the a*hole who is hot and has the cash to support his irresponsible lifestyle. It's just a scientific fact.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Goodbye assbutt.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Done with your arrogant attitude.

[John_Doesnt]

I just blocked you, how are you posting me again?

[Anonguy7777]

I didn't block you I actually thought you blocked me. Luckily I have another account for when this happens. You're telling me to get off the rag? How mature. Reminds me of high school and the was the best argument the preppy and arrogant jocks could come up with. I am not crying because you don't deserve my tears. I couldn't care less that you have a bad attitude. I work at a hospital you honestly think everyone is nice to me? Grow the hell up.

[Anonguy7777]

But I am going to block you know and I for the record, I am a virgin. So I am not a whore.

[CancerianMan81]

@Ginnyweasley97 assbutt oh you so didn't quote Castiel

[CancerianMan81]

OMG!!! that is so priceless

[Righttobeararms83]

good take. But as a guy who was a "bad boy" in my youth not all women are like this. It seems like most young women 14-22 will always choose the bad boy over the nice guy until experience teaches them otherwise.

[CasaNorba]

lol nice guys dont finish first either. I was always told that bad boys and mr nice guys are two sides of the same coin.

also let's not forget that mr nice guys are creepy

[yololoyo]

Then the next thing you know you hop in with me cuz I know how to have fun

[jesusnicolas768]

Lies girls prefer bad boys to nice guys it's the truth

[Ginnyweasley97]

And here we go.

[jesusnicolas768]

Sigh we can't help its life girls prefer guys who intrigue them not 1 dimensional guys who are easier to figure out

[Ginnyweasley97]

I might be in the minority but I am tired of playing games. Games are for children. Arrogance is not hot either. A straightforward attitude is ideal. But please tell me how women feel.

[jesusnicolas768]

I have seen it most women are after guys who treat them like shit and they're ok with it

[Ginnyweasley97]

And you know this because you what? Met every woman on the planet and graphed it? You obviously missed a piece of data from me. I am way too independent to settle for a guy who hits me or treats me like garbage. If a guy who I am dating hits me, I break up with him on the spot and cut off all contact right away.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Again I can't speak for other women. Reading is very essential for having a conversation over the Internet. I'd rather not repeat what I already said to you. Also if you read my last paragraph, I said women who are in relationships with bad boys have problems themselves.

[jesusnicolas768]

Yeah sorry I was tired when said that but yeah it makes senses maybe somewhere in this big world there is girls who like guys that are nice guys

[Ginnyweasley97]

I think good women with strong morals and not willing to settle like the good guys they know they deserve better than the bad boys. Girls who are insecure among other things, put up with the bad boys.

[jesusnicolas768]

Yeah true af

[CancerianMan81]

you need to be praised @Ginnyweasley97

[CancerianMan81]

and the way you talk about straightforwardness I love it

[Ginnyweasley97]

Thanks I am a very straightforward person and hate games. It makes sense to be with someone who is also straightforward

[CancerianMan81]

for crying out loud us nice guys know what we want and it doesn't take much to try and get what we want that's the difference and yes I know

[CancerianMan81]

I totally agree

[CancerianMan81]

being bad is short lived anyway

[CancerianMan81]

and it doesn't get you anywhere

[CancerianMan81]

I'm sorry that you girls have to go through so much pain and misery

[CancerianMan81]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ey0HrEvh44c

[CancerianMan81]

I just needed that push

[CancerianMan81]

@MyMintFrappe I just did and your basically contradicting yourself in no way was I avoiding for how I feel and you ain't forcing your mistakes off onto me and the only one i see bitching and moaning is you

[CancerianMan81]

@MyMintFrappe oh and by the way I wasn't even talking about you... You fucking nutjob

[Zorax]

Great Take, I like your way of thinking :D