10 Reasons Why Introverts Are Amazingly Attractive Individuals

[vekin]

Introverts are attractive people, only not everyone is able to see this awesomeness right away.

They’re Deep Thinkers

When they speaks, you can be sure that most of the times they have spent time thinking about the subject.

They Have More Intimate Connections

It’s maybe harder for an introvert to connect but when they do you can know you are special.

They’re Great Listeners

One of the superpowers of an introvert is listening. Do you need someone just to listen, an introvert will be there for you.

They’re Mysterious

Because they aren’t an open book most of the times and open up for you at times, they become kinda mysterious.

They’re A Challenge

Because introverts are more guarded then an extrovert they become more a challenge for you. And challenges are what life makes more intresting.

They Take Care Of Themselves

Unwanted attention because of their less appealing way they look like, is something an introvert doesn’t like and so they take care of themselves.

They Take Care Of Others

They have a generous spirit, and tend to embrace genuine altruism. The truly generous, those who give without the expectation of receiving in return, are beautiful people inside and out.

They Know Themselves

In general introverts know exactly what they like and dislike. They know what they want out of life.

They Are Easy To Be Around

Like vampires try to avoid daylight so are trying introverts to avoid the spotlight. It isn’t their goal to impress but simple to enjoy the moment and the company.

They Are Loyal

Every relationship needs an investment of time and energy. When an introvert invest you they keep investing in the relationship. Just don’t take their loyalty for granted or take advantage of them too many times.

In summary, introverts are amazing people with rich hidden depths, and if you are one or know one, rejoice!

[EmpatheticLady]

Definitely some good points here. Nice Take.

[vekin]

thank you

[EmpatheticLady]

You're welcome.

[EmpatheticLady]

Thanks for MHO!

[vekin]

you are welcome

[RexCatholicissimus]

This introvert badge of honour shit is always seems weird to me. Do you think any girl cares if a man is an introvert? That includes the """"""""""""introverted"""""""""" girls. Like grow up, it's such a weird thing to categorise yourself as without an ounce of shame.

[vekin]

Just tried to point out that introvert people are awrsome too

[Munchkin_pie]

Are you saying people should be ashamed for proudly saying they are introverts?

[Shorty1991]

Yipeeee! I'm introvert. You've got to really take time to get to know me first before I open up. My best friend thought I was a bit of a boring miss goody two shoes when he first met me. But I opened up to him eventually and he said I was full of hidden depths. Unfortunately not a lot of people spend time getting to know me. They must prefer the open book extroverts. Nice take by the way.

[GracefulCharm]

Nobody is truly extrovert or introvert, we are made up of both. A introvert can adopt more extrovert personality traits as they age. You have to challenge yourself. I've been through a lot of challenges in my life so sometimes people think I am a extrovert because I initiate conversations take the role of attention. But honestly, I was never like that as a kid. I was quiet and shy just like your typical introvert and I spend more time alone enjoying my personal accomplishments.

[Shorty1991]

@GracefulCharm Yeah I agree with you, I think we're all half and half. That's great that you managed to come out of your shell. I'm not really shy, I just find it hard to trust people so I stay kind of reserved until I know I can trust them. I used to initiate conversations all of the time but I got fed up of it because I was left with it. People very rarely made the same effort with me.

[GracefulCharm]

It's not possible to be a complete introvert when you love someone. They give you warm feelings and make you excited to see them. Its like I feel great alone but I feel even better when she's around. We introverts may not feel like conforming to what's expected of us. But we do conform to the one we love. So there is a little bit of extrovert in all of us if you can love someone else.

[Shorty1991]

@GracefulCharm I wasn't talking about people we love or crushes. I was just talking about people in general. If its family members then you've either pissed them off or they don't want anything to do with you. If its crushes then there are introverts that lack confidence so they do the opposite and avoid there interest/admire them from a distance.

[vekin]

Thank you!
Yes unfortunately not many do that

[GracefulCharm]

If you avoid them, and admire from a distance, that means you feel insecure about yourself. I can relate to that, but let's be honest, you should always pursue what you want in life. If you settle for something less, you will never feel content. You should date people you want to date. Everyone should have that opportunity.

In regards to your family. I feel the same way, I've been hurt and abused since a child. I had a lot of anger in me and depression. It was only until I brought up how selfish they have been when treating me. How they have never considered how I felt once. Some of them understood and became sympathetic. One didn't, the one who didn't. I don't really care to have a relationship anymore, because I always suspected he was a psychopath. Every time we talked, it was always about him, him, him, he didn't even view himself as wrong for taking advantage of me and backstabbing me. He even agreed that it would be wrong if I did it to him, but it's fine if he does it to me.

[Anonymous]

That's all nice but girls don't give a fuck about that. They want extrovert males who have high social (popular) status, good looks, and tall, and make lots of money.

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Altruism, special connection and all that shit means 0 to women.

[GracefulCharm]

Some women are introverts too you moron. Some women find guys with tons of energy exhausting. Introvert women tend to be very career oriented. A successful wealthy introvert women would find a extrovert male party animal to be repulsive unless he was funny.

Being a extrovert doesn't mean you are immediatly successful, where did you get that retarded idea. There's a lot of extrovert people who are hated by their community. Posting assumptions and generalizations like this is a sure way to get hate from open minded people.

[Opinion Owner]

@GracefulCharm Just because a woman is introverted does not mean she wants an introverted male. Your logic is flawed.

Some womn yes but majority of women wants a guy who is extrovert and popular. Introvert women career oriented... source?

Again where are you getting this from than introvert women don't like extrovert male? If you think people match up with those like them then you are wrong. If we were to go by your logic nice girls would go for nice guys but the vast majority chase assholes over and over until they finally give the nice guy a shot by late 20's and 30's.

Extrovert means you socialize. Larger social group means you have more connections which means you have a better chance at success. Being introvert means your social network is smaller. In this world it's more about who you know rather than how hard you work.

It's generalization but it's true. Girls go for tall men on average (fact), girls go for nice faces (face) over everything else.

[Opinion Owner]

Girls like guys who are popular and other women want to fuck (girl's approval) fact. Just because some women don't doesn't change the norm.

[Opinion Owner]

Now tip your fedora and go back to playing warcraft.

[GracefulCharm]

Wow you a stupid guy, do you even understand that introverts are all about caring about their own thoughts and personality first. Introverts still socialize, they just do it on their own terms because they aren't so concerned about impressing other people. A introvert is not rushing to make friends, they are contended with themselves. In fact, it extroverts are actually weaker in character because they seek acceptance and approval from others.

Do your research on both these terms, you don't understand them. There have been successful introverts and successful extroverts. IT DOES NOT DICTATE HOW YOU SUCCEED IN WEALTH OR CAREER. A great example of a obvious successful introvert would be Howard Hughes.

Yes introvert women tend to be more successful than extrovert women because they are focused on themselves rather than who they are dating or who their friends are. But like I said, it does not guarantee they would be successful, there's more factors involved.

[Opinion Owner]

@GracefulCharm If you need to insult we aren't going to have a discussion bitch. Keep living in your own dream world.

[GracefulCharm]

Here's a list that you can also read and enjoy realizing how wrong and ignorant you are moron

huffingtonpost. com/2015/08/15/famous-introverts_n_3733400. html

[vekin]

Maybe some prefer that but not at all

[Munchkin_pie]

As an introvert, I agree with these 😌 Great take :) obviously not all introverts are the same (for those saying these are stereotypes and blah blah blah), but definitely true for me at least and probably most introverts :)

[vekin]

Thnx for the compliment!

I also don't understand why some say these obvious Things

[Silver119]

A lot of these are true but are stereotypes. Introverts are generally categorized as having a preference of being alone with their own thoughts. That's what an introvert actually is. None of that means they're loyal or more guarded. They're just as likely to stab someone in the back as the next person. And I'm an introvert but I'm pretty social to an extent, it exhausts me however and I'm pretty much an open book for anyone that wants to know, I'm not guarded.

[Anonymous]

10 Reasons Why Introverts Are Disgustingly Unattractive Individuals:

1- They're covered in acne
2- They play video games all day
3- They live with their parents
4- They have poor hygiene
5- They have no social skills
6- They're most often short
7- They're most often ugly
8- They're virgins with no experience
9- They have ADHD
10- They're awkward to be around (they don't say anything cause they don't know what to say)

[Silver119]

I'm introverted and...
1. I have pretty clear skin unless I grow a beard then I get a few spots.
2. Video games are fun.
3. I do currently but not the case for everyone.
4. I shower everyday and am well groomed.
5. I can make friends easily. Just because I like being alone doesn't mean I don't know how to interact with people.
6. 5' 10" is average height.
7. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
8. True for a small minority but sex is easy to get so the majority aren't, Women can be introverts too. Do you not think it possible for female and male introverts to hook up?
9. Introverts are usually quiet by nature having ADHD would negate that and is probably found more in extroverts...
10. Could be worse we could be talking shit and being really annoying.

[red324]

Don't forget we're very generous in bed cause we have to makeup for our lack of an extroverted personality :P

[shinyunicorn]

good listener? maybe, but most of the time I will awkwardly smile at you and wait for it to end so I can go away...

[AlwaysBelieving]

You wait? I just make an excuse and "vacate the premises."

[slimstiffy]

Lol thay comment and thay dp..

[shinyunicorn]

@slimstiffy magikarp can do no wrong

[slimstiffy]

I know. All it can do is splash.

[shinyunicorn]

@slimstiffy he is innocent and does not deserve all this hate!!!111!!!1 p recious child

[slimstiffy]

Yeah.. Plus every hater will get his ass kicked once he evolves..

[HelloEveryone123456]

When an introvert goes to a bar, they sit there and don't talk...

Not exactly the best way to get pussy...

[dangerDoge]

Hey, I won't disagree with that... But then again, I'm probably pretty bias on it all since I am introverted myself lol

[steveguitar]

Good take, hopefully it shakes some girls into getting to know one lol

[vekin]

Truly hope people give introverts more chance

[abundantlyrich]

Having those traits doesn't mean they are introverted

[Homebakedcookies]

You're just saying that because you're not special, like me!

[abundantlyrich]

Weirdos

[bcromartie]

Half of these are outright lies based on stereotyping.

[vekin]

surely you can't say all introverts are the same

[bcromartie]

Hence the whole "mysterious introvert" being bullshit alongside "the guarded introvert" and being a great listener. None of this is actually based on more than the fact that people just made the shit up to counterbalance extroverts.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

This was an awesome take, I really enjoyed it :)

[vekin]

Glad you have enjoyed it

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Yes I sure did :) <3

[AlwaysBelieving]

Good take. I may know myself, it doesn't mean I'm used to all of myself though.

[Decentguy]

This is very awesome take, thanks :)

[vekin]

thank you for your comment

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Glad to be found attractive :) This is quite relatable for me.

[Anonymous]

I like it. Except, women still prefer to date the extroverted assholes

[kisnome]

That's great. I prefer extroverted men though.

[Homebakedcookies]

The party muppets who talk at you rather than to you? jeez

[RexCatholicissimus]

So basically every woman the planet.

[Offthelist]

sounds generally accurate. good points